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So, I need some advice... my fiancé says my family is borderline abusing me... I'll explain more in the comments.

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Asked about 7 years ago by userpic jaqi
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5678 9 490611777 profile 2088681 0
good luck! 🤗
about 7 years ago
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5908 4 510468925 profile 2153544 0
I hope you all can read what I wrote, because it only shows me the first sentence.
about 7 years ago
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5908 4 510468925 profile 2153544 0
Any, the first reason is numbing fear to their anger, but second is in regards to my "chores".
about 7 years ago
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5908 4 510468925 profile 2153544 0
My chores are basically the upkeeping of most the household when no ones home, excluding cooking which is about all my mom does.
about 7 years ago
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5908 4 510468925 profile 2153544 0
I must clean all my family's dishes and the whole kitchen, iron all my family's clothes as well as keep my room and bathroom in perfect condition, which never happens... (that's the basics only, they add other chores depending on the day) and get yelled at intensely if I do anything wrong or miss or forget.
about 7 years ago
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5908 4 510468925 profile 2153544 0
So first is fear, second is basically be their maid, and thirdly is I'm constantly being given inexcusable curfews ranging from 10 being the latest I can be out, to 8 and occasionally I have to be home by 6. For no reason other than they have to get up early the next day and refuse to go to bed until I'm home so their performance of the next day is my fault.
about 7 years ago
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5908 4 510468925 profile 2153544 0
I really hope you guys can read those.
about 7 years ago
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5908 4 510468925 profile 2153544 0
All my long explanations didn't show up for me...
about 7 years ago
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5908 4 510468925 profile 2153544 0
If you all can't see them, I'll repost what I said in smaller chunks.
about 7 years ago
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5908 4 510468925 profile 2153544 0
but as for my question, what do I need to do? Confront my parents about these things? Or do I just let them happen? What do I do?
about 7 years ago
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5678 9 490611777 profile 2088681 0
how old are you?
about 7 years ago
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5908 4 510468925 profile 2153544 0
I'm not gonna answer that. Sorry...
about 7 years ago
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5908 4 510468925 profile 2153544 0
I'm a legal adult is all I'll say
about 7 years ago
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5678 9 490611777 profile 2088681 0
@jaqi ok. ill accept this answer. have you ever thought of moving out?
about 7 years ago
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5908 4 510468925 profile 2153544 0
That's an issue of money... I don't have enough to support myself...
about 7 years ago
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5678 9 490611777 profile 2088681 0
@jaqi 😕 maybe u can apply for government support? then go to college or sign up for a short training course so that you can get a decently job like nursing aide
about 7 years ago
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5908 4 510468925 profile 2153544 0
That's not a bad idea. I'll look into that, thanks. :)
about 7 years ago
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5908 4 510468925 profile 2153544 0
@💋✌🏻️Beautina💋✌🏻️I just realized none of my responses had your name to them sorry. XD
about 7 years ago
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5678 9 490611777 profile 2088681 0
@jaqi that's ok. you're welcome
about 7 years ago
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5951 16 514224009 profile 640246 0
I think you should talk to your family about that. You should not be their maid and you should not fear them..
about 7 years ago
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6103 3 527311035 profile 2265047 0
I agree with @toast be open and honest with them
about 7 years ago
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5940 23 513301354 profile 2275593 0
Work as hard as you can to become self sufficient. Get away from them as fast as you can.
almost 7 years ago
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5950 15 514135037 profile 2284462 0
he's an outside perspective so maybe they are
almost 7 years ago
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5908 4 510468925 profile 2153544 0
The reasons he gives as to why he thinks I'm being abused is because of several things. The first is my numbing fear of them. Any time I would need to be confrontational to them I can't because they get angry and I have a very violent mental reaction to their anger. I basically have panic attacks. Btw I'll let you all know for age reference I am legally an adult.
about 7 years ago
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