good luck! 🤗
over 7 years ago
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I hope you all can read what I wrote, because it only shows me the first sentence.
over 7 years ago
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Any, the first reason is numbing fear to their anger, but second is in regards to my "chores".
over 7 years ago
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My chores are basically the upkeeping of most the household when no ones home, excluding cooking which is about all my mom does.
over 7 years ago
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I must clean all my family's dishes and the whole kitchen, iron all my family's clothes as well as keep my room and bathroom in perfect condition, which never happens... (that's the basics only, they add other chores depending on the day) and get yelled at intensely if I do anything wrong or miss or forget.
over 7 years ago
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So first is fear, second is basically be their maid, and thirdly is I'm constantly being given inexcusable curfews ranging from 10 being the latest I can be out, to 8 and occasionally I have to be home by 6. For no reason other than they have to get up early the next day and refuse to go to bed until I'm home so their performance of the next day is my fault.
over 7 years ago
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I really hope you guys can read those.
over 7 years ago
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All my long explanations didn't show up for me...
over 7 years ago
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If you all can't see them, I'll repost what I said in smaller chunks.
over 7 years ago
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but as for my question, what do I need to do? Confront my parents about these things? Or do I just let them happen? What do I do?
over 7 years ago
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how old are you?
over 7 years ago
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I'm not gonna answer that. Sorry...
over 7 years ago
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I'm a legal adult is all I'll say
over 7 years ago
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@jaqi ok. ill accept this answer. have you ever thought of moving out?
over 7 years ago
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That's an issue of money... I don't have enough to support myself...
over 7 years ago
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@jaqi 😕 maybe u can apply for government support? then go to college or sign up for a short training course so that you can get a decently job like nursing aide
over 7 years ago
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That's not a bad idea. I'll look into that, thanks. :)
over 7 years ago
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@💋✌🏻️Beautina💋✌🏻️I just realized none of my responses had your name to them sorry. XD
over 7 years ago
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@jaqi that's ok. you're welcome
over 7 years ago
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I think you should talk to your family about that. You should not be their maid and you should not fear them..
over 7 years ago
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I agree with @toast be open and honest with them
about 7 years ago
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Work as hard as you can to become self sufficient. Get away from them as fast as you can.
about 7 years ago
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he's an outside perspective so maybe they are
about 7 years ago
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The reasons he gives as to why he thinks I'm being abused is because of several things. The first is my numbing fear of them. Any time I would need to be confrontational to them I can't because they get angry and I have a very violent mental reaction to their anger. I basically have panic attacks. Btw I'll let you all know for age reference I am legally an adult.
over 7 years ago
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