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I'm really depresses right now. What should i do. I can't sleep.

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4490 2 profile 187312
Depression is natural, learn to accept this and you'll find it easier to deal with.
almost 11 years ago
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4510 2 profile 109231
@L. Lawliet I accept that it's natural but I can't clear my head.
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4490 2 profile 187312
Fair enough, I've read a few more of your questions, and it appears to be chronic depression you suffer from. In this case, one of the more natural of relieving long term depression is - believe it or not - exercise. Exercise allows the brain to release endorphins, in turn making you happier, and the more commonly you exercise, the less depressed you become in the long run. Not only that, but most of the time, people walk away with a sense of fulfillment and over time, a higher self esteem. Try this out if you have not already, it'll be tough to start, but it will become easier - so please, stick with it.
almost 11 years ago
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4510 2 profile 109231
i will try. Thanks for the advice... Again.
almost 11 years ago
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4490 2 profile 187312
No problem, and sorry if it seems like I'm stalking you. I'm simply bored and you are without a doubt the most interesting person I've seen on here tonight.
almost 11 years ago
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4510 2 profile 109231
your not. I'm glad that you commented. Most people comment stupid advice. Thank you.
almost 11 years ago
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4490 2 profile 187312
Alright, I'm going to turn in for the night. If you ever have any questions you need a serious answer for, simply hit the link to my page and post a comment about needing advice. I may not respond immediately, but I almost always read them within a day or two.
almost 11 years ago
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4510 2 profile 109231
ok. Thank you. Good night.
almost 11 years ago
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4499 20 profile 204243
try praying? Even if ur not religious it's worth it. Tell god if your mad, or sad, or depressed. It will help to vent. So why not to God?
almost 11 years ago
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4490 2 profile 187312
I have to agree with baby bear, venting is an extremely helpful thing to do. And frankly, as a Christian myself, I can find nothing wrong with doing what bear said... Okay, I seriously need to go to bed...
almost 11 years ago
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4563 23 profile 179926
If it gets really bad see a doctor and they might give u a antidepressant ik someone and it worked for her
almost 11 years ago
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4543 18 profile 212699
Try meditation or yoga, it sounds weird but that is just because people don't understand it, it is very relaxing and beneficial and let's you get a hold of your thoughts.
almost 11 years ago
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4563 23 profile 179926
@Amonna I'm gonna start yoga
almost 11 years ago
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4439 22 profile 106086
GAM
@__summertime__ if you do not feel like you can exercise just go for a walk. Especially if you can borrow a dog
almost 11 years ago
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4510 2 profile 109231
@carleyxoxo I have my own dog :)
almost 11 years ago
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4563 23 profile 179926
@__summertime__ what
almost 11 years ago
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4507 1 profile 222751
see a specialist?
almost 11 years ago
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4558 4 profile 69205
watch nostalgic tv shows
almost 11 years ago
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4476 3 profile 171648
talk to people if you are depressed!
almost 11 years ago
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4516 17 profile 232294
whenever im depressed I remember the girl at my job who just had an accodent and can no longer walk yet she still comes to work with a smile everyday i just dont feel right being mad over small stiff when this lady has gone through hell and back and never broke a sweat
almost 11 years ago
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4609 8 profile 237639
cry let you're feelings out. Pop 2 tylenols and call it a night
almost 11 years ago
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4662 19 profile 197477
Kat
When I can't go to sleep I think about things I want
almost 11 years ago
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4722 13 profile 86943
don't think of sleep, don't try and sleep nor try to stay awake. Just relax, turn on soft music and place it under your pillow - make it quiet so you can just hear it nicely. Think of tomorrow, the good things in life & breathe slowly. :)
almost 11 years ago
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4473 16 profile 167237
talk to u parents.
almost 11 years ago
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4564 2 profile 253827
think about something that makes u happy or the person u like and ur out like a light💥
almost 11 years ago
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5005 10 432471526 profile 134377 0
depression is normal, but it always helps to let your feelings out and talk about it like to a friend you trust or your parents. Try to understand why your depressed and fix it somehow, btw it's easier to sleep after you read
almost 11 years ago
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4598 7 profile 220686
rest and calm down
almost 11 years ago
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4837 23 418002849 profile 373519 0
Drink warm milk
over 10 years ago
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5771 2 498624523 profile 171422 0
Dance all night to the best song ever
over 10 years ago
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4719 3 profile 173352
be depressed
over 10 years ago
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4666 13 profile 441679
Read. It'll take ur mind offa things, and make ur eyes tired at the same time.
over 10 years ago
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5005 3 432444726 profile 199288 0
@BOW DOWN BITCHES!!! MINDY HAS ARRIVED!! I'm sorry! :(
over 10 years ago
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4666 13 profile 441679
@Emopony101 for what?
over 10 years ago
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5005 3 432444726 profile 199288 0
@BOW DOWN BITCHES!!! MINDY HAS ARRIVED!! For calling you a ho and a bitch! Sorry Mindy! :(
over 10 years ago
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4750 21 profile 566388
Sorry, reading might help or listening to relaxing music.
over 10 years ago
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5018 1 433561627 profile 185605 0
try to take a shower before bed and seek therapy I'm twelve and I have bipolar, depression anxiety and a very slight schizophrenia... I know how you feel..schizophrenia makes me hear and see things that aren't there... Trying to sleep with noise that sounds like constant chatter in your head for years isn't easy...
over 10 years ago
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4600 0 profile 385172
@Summer :3 think about why you might be depressed believe me it works I know how you feel I've gone through depression like that too and at first thinking about it makes you even more sad but later you feel way better.
over 10 years ago
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5018 1 433561627 profile 185605 0
@Amonna I agree with you! Meditation (if you are serious and do it right) calms your soul/spirit down and quiets your inner voices! Listen to meditating music while doing it!
over 10 years ago
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4771 23 profile 416609
I've been depressed for over a year now, and the only thing that can really take my mind off of it is hanging out with my boyfriend or my best friend. (Sorry if that's not much help)
over 10 years ago
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5184 19 profile 161890
I stay up really late reading.
over 10 years ago
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4740 14 profile 146475
just relax and take a nice hot bath in a bathtub, just lay there and dim the lights down, it helps trust me.
over 10 years ago
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5707 3 profile 477722
if you're depressed, you should go see a psychiatrist and get antidepressants (I'd you haven't already.)
about 10 years ago
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4837 23 418002849 profile 373519 0
@person Or smoke a fatty😝
about 10 years ago
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5707 3 profile 477722
@😟 Saruchan 😧 hahaha great advice there
about 10 years ago
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5365 4 463551322 profile 475674 0
Just go to sleep
about 10 years ago
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4837 23 418002849 profile 373519 0
@person It would be better watching cartoons with a buzz & just trip out laughing I did it watch the old bugs bunny cartoon I'll never see it the same way again!😆
about 10 years ago
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4778 1 profile 609487
Tommorow is a new day. Get the stress off you and don't worry be happy. You should also listen to that song by Bobby McFerrin called don't worry, be happy.
about 10 years ago
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4740 14 profile 146475
@👊Duchessjohanna👊 read the question! They can't sleep!
about 10 years ago
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4802 5 profile 627535
I have a hard time sleeping every night I find reading very helpful but that is just what works for me
about 10 years ago
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4871 14 420905738 profile 532377 0
Take deep breaths listen to the songs that u like (I would choose do it all over again by Elyar Fox or dark hours by katy perry. Also don't think about it.
about 10 years ago
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4794 4 profile 59383
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I know how u feel, and what I usually do is just think of all the ways life can get better, and all the good things that u can dream about, and all the ppl who love u, and all the fun things u can do tomorrow. I mean, I actually don't do these things but maybe I will! Feel better!
about 10 years ago
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I'm talking from experience btw I have major depression and not being treated for it so if u can go to a psychiatrist then go ASAP bc i heard it really helps.
about 10 years ago
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4826 19 417038225 profile 175271 0
listen to happy songs 😁 try going to talk to someone and get help. From experience the more people you talk to and have them help the more better you'll become. Just live. Hang with friends. Make an appointment to go to therapy and from there you will progress and become stronger 😊 just remember you're never alone
about 10 years ago
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4822 10 416659974 profile 660351 0
talk to somebody 😄😄😄
about 10 years ago
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5440 10 470053224 profile 526370 0
Get help! Watch some programe that you have not seen for ages or do something new! Trust me, it works. Try not to do stuff that may remind of the depression and always find the beauty in things. Get counciling, trust me it works, good luck☺️
about 10 years ago
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4822 18 416688091 profile 86477 0
Listen to music, but NOT depressing music :( i know you'll only be in the mood for that but its pointless then. Try and make it cheer u up. :) try listening not to pitbul maybe xD but something nice n calm n cheerful :) like the beetles.
about 10 years ago
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4827 3 417064554 profile 534540 0
I don't sleep at all. I just listen to music tho.
about 10 years ago
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4558 23 profile 307426
Don't worry just go with the flow and you will be ok
about 10 years ago
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4848 0 418868247 profile 683037 0
@Error420 same here. I don't fucking sleep. Nor do I eat.
about 10 years ago
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4848 0 418868247 profile 683037 0
We will do this together Summer :3
about 10 years ago
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4862 19 420145578 profile 695356 0
U need to reach out to ur parents because u can't be alone in this their r groups hbcan go to to make sure that I r ok and I cAn talk about it. U wouldn't think it would help but it really does. And go to the doctor they will make u feel better. Talk to someone
about 10 years ago
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4862 19 420145578 profile 695356 0
don't do anything stupid like smoke cause that will make everything worse!
about 10 years ago
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4869 17 420745756 profile 688592 0
Think of your happy place a place where you can escape all the crap of life
almost 10 years ago
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4864 20 420324972 profile 707413 0
painting writing... Something where you get to put your feelings on something... Usually easier to deal with in colors you understand
almost 10 years ago
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4867 0 420511627 profile 709997 0
find something that makes you happy. Gotta have more than one thing in your life to keep you going.
almost 10 years ago
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4984 19 430688878 profile 695146 0
Tell someone that really gets u if they don't kno, go to a counselor for ur worries
almost 10 years ago
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4882 7 421832107 profile 634439 0
Plz do listen to music tht helps me
almost 10 years ago
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4895 18 422994475 profile 740910 0
always talk to someone about it. NEVER HOLD IT IN!!! U will go insane if u do. Mean while think about farting elephants... It helps me;)
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5172 9 446894480 profile 697743 0
If u is depressed or sad. Just go to McDonald's and order a happy meal😉
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4996 17 431716199 profile 740420 0
Go have a good time with your boyfriend, friends, or your family😋
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5557 13 480172875 profile 349149 0
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Do NOT listen to music, it just makes it worse! Scientists have proven that people who listen a lot to music are more likely to get drepressed than people who listen less to music! When i am really depressed,i often cry it all out, afterwards i already fell a bit better, you should really try to distract yourself!
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5172 9 446894480 profile 697743 0
@noe if u should try to distract yourself doesn't music distract u from ur problem. I'm a bit confused
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4822 10 416659974 profile 660351 0
@noe music does help if it's happy or upbeat just not if it's slow or sad or angry
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5557 13 480172875 profile 349149 0
noe
@Nikola depends on what music. But I read that people who spend much time on linstening music are more likely to get depressed, but that doesn't have to be true for everyone... I can only speak for myself and in my case, music made me sadder..sure it is a distraction but it kinda makes you built your own little world in your hand, so you start living in this world and you isolate yourself.. You escape in this world because it is better than your actual life...
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5197 3 449032415 profile 679502 0
I listen to Metal & I don't care what Scientists or Doctors say they can take a Flying Fuck! I always feel better afterwards..
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4948 17 427571954 profile 722865 0
I've been through that stuff just try to sleep
almost 10 years ago
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4968 21 429313602 profile 114539 0
talk to ur bestie n have a nice laugh
almost 10 years ago
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5432 5 469342963 profile 724135 0
listen to sad songs or love songs
almost 10 years ago
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4954 2 428036055 profile 773220 0
search lacrae violence in utube.
almost 10 years ago
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it's been proven that sad songs or movies make us feel better about our lives.
over 9 years ago
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5000 19 432070976 profile 590782 0
Talk to your friends about it
over 9 years ago
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5316 16 459362018 profile 844752 0
Tell an adult or someone who can help you.
over 9 years ago
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5079 17 438887114 profile 704449 0
Go for a run
over 9 years ago
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5103 11 440940174 profile 1059820 0
listen to music
over 9 years ago
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5200 15 449335758 profile 739779 0
Thats a really hard question to answer without knowing more about why you are depressed. But for starters. Are you feeling depressed a lot without any specific reason? Or are you depressed because something specific has happened, which has made you depressed? By that I mean something that would make most ppl upset, such as a break up, someone has died, a disagreement with a friend, problems at work, problems with your parents or partner, money problems... Etc If you are down but don't really understand why, and this has been going on for more than a few days, talk to a good friend. If they dont understand, find someone else, and keep doing this till you find someone who can help. If you dont have friends or family who you think can help, try talking to a pastor/elder/minister at a local church (even if u havent ever been to church) and again if the firsg pastor u approach isnt able to understand, go to another church and try again.. And keep doing that. The main thing is finding someone who is able to hear u and take u seriously. If you are depressed for a specific reason, such as breakup, death, relationship, work, family or money problems, try and step outside your own feelings And experiences of the situation and imagine yourself as the other person. If its someone you know does love u, but seems to be acting in a hurtful way right now, instead of asking why they are being so horrible, say to yourself "i know they wouldn't intentionally ever choose to hurt me.. so there must be something else which has caused them to behave in this way" and then try and think about whay might be going on with that person. It may be they dont realise they have upset you, or if they do, they felt they had no other choice, for whatever reason. If you still cant figure ut why they have done or said something to hurt u, try asking them from this same perspective, ie rather than "how could you do/say that!?!" Try "I know you would never intentionally hurt me, so there MUST be something that I don't know about which is the reason for you doing/saying [whatever they did or said that upset you]
over 9 years ago
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6098 19 526937858 profile 1085687 0
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What makes u depressed?
over 9 years ago
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5160 0 445825035 profile 1118617 0
Sadly, it's very common for me. I deal with bullies at school, and I believe every word. I started doing some STUPID STUPID things to feel because I felt so numb. I can't take away the pain, but I'm always here if you need to chat.
about 9 years ago
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5160 19 445893938 profile 1134066 0
It depends why your depressed but whatever it is do something you like to do like draw, Sing, or some kind of sport to get you mind of of it
about 9 years ago
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5292 1 457233769 profile 1139657 0
I agree with allyssa...do what makes you happy...then you most likely will feel better.
about 9 years ago
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5165 20 profile 224254
If your desperate than do what seems to help me the most by cutting yourself but don't use a knife or anything use paper it's way better and not extremely dangerous! God luck try to connect to the reason why your hurt like for me I am extremely depressed because I miss my old home and niehborhood a lot and will just be miserable about where I am now so I try to listen to my old songs I use to listen to back there and reach out to my past
about 9 years ago
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5184 4 447913319 profile 1155126 0
Listen to music if u like Taylor swift try her songs
about 9 years ago
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5184 4 447913319 profile 1155126 0
@brianna plz don't cut yourself or tell people to try it
about 9 years ago
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5365 4 463551322 profile 475674 0
@Brianna don't ever tell people to cut themselves thanks
about 9 years ago
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5165 20 profile 224254
ya that's why I gave two mother fuckin opootions dumbass
about 9 years ago
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5234 1 452222840 profile 1094193 0
@brianna Wow. That is really horrible advice.
about 9 years ago
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5165 20 profile 224254
@👑Noatak👑 or I said they could get in touch with thier inner demons duh
about 9 years ago
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5234 1 452222840 profile 1094193 0
@brianna Well it was very horribly put together.
about 9 years ago
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5707 3 profile 477722
@brianna It doesn't matter if you"gave two mother fuckin opootions". The fact that you'd advise someone to cut herself is scary as hell and so morally wrong. Just..no.
about 9 years ago
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5234 1 452222840 profile 1094193 0
@👑MirandaKnowsWhat'sUp👑 heyyy. My love.
about 9 years ago
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Talk to someone. I hope you feel better! <3
about 9 years ago
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5197 3 449032415 profile 679502 0
Dont be depresses be happyses
about 9 years ago
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5829 2 503635652 profile 2138568 0
@Sakanaru What?!😂
over 7 years ago
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5225 12 451486718 profile 788896 0
Laugh it beautiful day also it helps me to listen to music and go to church
almost 9 years ago
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5243 22 453074988 profile 1562871 0
Get some inspiration and do what you love. Relax and do something that make you happy. Surround yourself with positive people.
almost 9 years ago
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5245 20 453241210 profile 1577418 0
find someone to help you
almost 9 years ago
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5406 4 467095490 profile 1903880 0
draw and talk to pepole
over 8 years ago
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5399 2 466481991 profile 1928020 0
Talk to someone, honestly anyone
over 8 years ago
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5406 4 467095490 profile 1903880 0
whach jackseticeye he helps me or lesion to weird al
over 8 years ago
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5502 11 475415812 profile 965117 0
try Going to a table and writing down what's bothering you . It works for me!
over 8 years ago
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5747 8 496569807 profile 2135480 0
Watching funny things, like cats failing at jumps. Listen to music, draw, watch a movie, go talk to a friend or parent, do whatever helps. You could actually go to a therapist also. Just make sure they have a lot of experience and that their personality makes you comfortable.
over 7 years ago
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contact those that care about you. I was in the same place you are and they helped me out of that place. I wish I had asked for them sooner. In the long term you should work to identify what is missing in your life and try and find it. For me it was that I was alone. Your choices all were things that distract you. Thinking why you are feeling the way you do instead of avoiding it is important if you want to get out of that place.
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