I'm shy and have anxiety.. I can't talk to any one.. What do I do? My kik is infinity_goes_on3 btw..

I used to be like that a few years ago... Then I became best friends with this girl who is really loud and outgoing and loves to embarrass me (jokingly, of course.) Now I've been publicly humiliated so many times that I don't care about what people think of me anymore and my anxiety is substantially lessened. So I guess what I'm trying to say is find someone to hang out with that doesn't care about what people think, have fun and act as retarded as you want. It'll eventually effect how you act overall.

I do have an exact equal best friend.. Which is the only person I can talk to with out like.. Stammering and being all quiet.. But my friend and I both can't talk to anyone else but each other. And it's going to extremes kinda, because well like.. We aren't gonna go to high school, we're going to do online home schooling, unless our anxiety clears up.. Yeah.

@MirandaKnowsWhat'sUp

The comment I just posted isn't showing up for me... Can you see it?

@MirandaKnowsWhat'sUp yes

Not the first one, the one where I talked about why I think you should consider going to high school. I think it bugged out I'll have to type it again

No I didn't get it.

Well, I meant to say my brother went to an alternative school for people with anxiety and other social issues instead of middle school a few years ago because of his anxiety, and while he was there his anxiety and depression worsened. Then, he decided to go to the public high school and felt a lot better about himself. You would think high school would make you more anxious, but it's not always the case. High school is where teenagers learn social skills, therefore I believe I'd you have poor social skills it's exactly where you need to go even though it may seem like it would be hell. I would advise you to talk to a psychologist about your problems if you haven't already, and ask for their professional opinion on the matter.

@Breezy.💕 I think maybe try to talk to people who you think will you can fit in with by being yourself, not those "populars". When you see a group of kids that you think you would become friends with if you weren't so shy, take that chance. Go up to them and don't even think about this, just say hi. I am personally not the best with friends either but that's mainly because my school is literally only sluts, and assholes. If your school is like that then I think you should go to public high school and try what I said. High schools are different.

@Breezy.💕 Yea also, my anxiety lessened from middle school to high school because my high school had more of a variety of people who were more accepting and calmer than in middle school. Also, it's a new school so not everyone knows who you are, therefore you can become a whole new person.

@MirandaKnowsWhat'sUp thanks, I'll try.

@💕Mel💕😎 thanks, I'll try, but it's not always that easy.

@Breezy.💕 I know, I used to have anxiety and I used to be shy as well. Until I did the "hi" thing. Yeah, but that just made me realize that the people in my school are sluts and assholes (as I said before). Bigger ones then I thought at first. Anyways if it ends up like that for you stick to your best friend until you reach high school, then you can look and do that hi thing again ☺️

smoke a fatty then you can loosen up

@😟Saruchan😧 That seems like your solution to everything XD

@Breezy.💕I used to have anxiety and was shy until I was publicly humiliated by myself and my friends until I didn't care...l in math class I say the dumbest things to the entire class to loosen up. My teacher asked the class recently if anything new happened and I announced to everyone in response "Some delinquents smoked a joint on my bus" XD the whole class stared at me like "what the hell is wrong with her" and I just sat there laughing.

@MirandaKnowsWhat'sUp That actually sounds like you'd be a pretty fun, and funny classmate, mate. Lol.

@MirandaKnowsWhat'sUp It works. Try watching cartoons its amazing!!😳

@💕Mel💕😎Haha thanks! I'm only weird in that class because my classmates are either juniors (I'm a sophomore) or my friends so I don't care what they think. Plus my teacher is pretty young and thinks I'm cool so he doesn't care what I say... although that surprised him haha he was just like (O.o) uhhhhhhh and didn't know what to say

@😟Saruchan😧 Well obviously it works lol but that's not the kind of advise you should be giving to children XD

Oh shes 13.......... Oops!😅

@😟Saruchan😧 Hahaha yea if you read the conversation she was talking about how she decided she isn't going to go to high school... Which implies she's under 15

@MirandaKnowsWhat'sUp I smoked weed before I went to High school...... *High school wow! Wouldnt that be awesome?! Teachers: "Ok class todays lesson: Rolling a Joint" Awesome I'd go to that class! Hell! I'd kill just to get in!!!😃

@😟Saruchan😧 Hahaha wow nice pun. And yea, a lot of people I know have done drugs before they went to high school but they all either have major problems of some sort or they're really ghetto/total dipshits. (not saying you are though you seem pretty cool)

@MirandaKnowsWhat'sUp I got high before a Geography exam & made a 90. That day I was so calm & relaxed read every question thoroughly and aced it!

@😟Saruchan😧 hahaha wow

@MirandaKnowsWhat'sUp All I know is theres a lot of different varieties of weed. And I just lucked out on the one for ADD😂

@😟Saruchan😧 You lucky bastard xD

@MirandaKnowsWhat'sUp True story...😊

you guys are funny..😂 But please just tell me, do I go to high school or not?

@Breezy.💕 Yes go to High school to me the teachers are smarter because they're better trained to teach older kids.. But thats my opinion, good luck..😊

@Breezy.💕In my opinion, having anxiety is a reason to go to high school. You need the social experience. But, if your anxiety is as bad as you claim it is, you should talk to a social worker or psychologist about it and get a professional opinion.

Alright, I'll think about it.. Thanks.

@Breezy.💕 I am too. We are in it together girl. We can do this.

talk to someone. Just do it.

Talk to a psychologist, a psychiatrist or go to a counsellor or a cognitive behaviour therapist or an IBI therapist😄.

I am too if ur that shy try talking I'm the mirror to boost ur confidence about talking to people outside of ur house

Me too, and I haven't figured out a solution yet either.

do what I do. Seek professional help

@Breezy.💕don't be sacrd to talk to people if you want you can chat with me and we will talk and that is a good reason to go to high school

counseling and/or support groups. baby steps. work on changing your anxious thought patterns. this is all very treatable.

talk to at least one person to make a new friend, to help overcome your shyness and anxiety