If a child is a bully is it the parent's fault? Comment!

it may just be the kids internal issues that people don't know about and they take it out on others

@🌸MissMandiMae🌸 mmm that's true. But then isn't it the parent's job to acknowledge there is a problem and get the kid help so it stops?

@👑MirandaKnowsWhat'sUp👑 yeah my cousin has some type of mental problem and he is getting medicine but he still has pent up energy because of what has happened in his recent past

@🌸MissMandiMae🌸 Oh, that's a shame :/ hopefully he'll find a healthy output for that energy

@👑MirandaKnowsWhat'sUp👑 yeah

I'm reading this great book by Jodi Picoult, where a fictional school shooting happens. It's written in the point of views of all the characters, including the bomber/shooter, and his parents.

And anyways, the parents are trying to figure out if it was their fault. The father did teach his son how to shoot, after all. The mother feels like she has to keep loving her son, even after what he did. It's a long book, and I haven't gotten very far, but sometimes parents can't change their kids.

Most of the time yes, because their parents don't give them enough attention and nurturing.

No not always, at least not directly. I'm that type of person who always looks for the good things in people. So my theory is that most bullys don't get enough attention from their parents for example, which is why they turn their aggressions to power in order to ignore the fact of them being fucked up themselves.