I must clean all my family's dishes and the whole kitchen, iron all my family's clothes as well as keep my room and bathroom in perfect condition, which never happens... (that's the basics only, they add other chores depending on the day) and get yelled at intensely if I do anything wrong or miss or forget.
So first is fear, second is basically be their maid, and thirdly is I'm constantly being given inexcusable curfews ranging from 10 being the latest I can be out, to 8 and occasionally I have to be home by 6. For no reason other than they have to get up early the next day and refuse to go to bed until I'm home so their performance of the next day is my fault.
The reasons he gives as to why he thinks I'm being abused is because of several things. The first is my numbing fear of them. Any time I would need to be confrontational to them I can't because they get angry and I have a very violent mental reaction to their anger. I basically have panic attacks. Btw I'll let you all know for age reference I am legally an adult.