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So, I need some advice... my fiancé says my family is borderline abusing me... I'll explain more in the comments.

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Asked about 1 year ago by userpic jaqi to crowd icon Everyone
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5678-9-490611777-profile-2088681-0
good luck! 🤗
about 1 year ago
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5908-4-510468925-profile-2153544-0
I hope you all can read what I wrote, because it only shows me the first sentence.
about 1 year ago
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5908-4-510468925-profile-2153544-0
Any, the first reason is numbing fear to their anger, but second is in regards to my "chores".
about 1 year ago
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5908-4-510468925-profile-2153544-0
My chores are basically the upkeeping of most the household when no ones home, excluding cooking which is about all my mom does.
about 1 year ago
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5908-4-510468925-profile-2153544-0
I must clean all my family's dishes and the whole kitchen, iron all my family's clothes as well as keep my room and bathroom in perfect condition, which never happens... (that's the basics only, they add other chores depending on the day) and get yelled at intensely if I do anything wrong or miss or forget.
about 1 year ago
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5908-4-510468925-profile-2153544-0
So first is fear, second is basically be their maid, and thirdly is I'm constantly being given inexcusable curfews ranging from 10 being the latest I can be out, to 8 and occasionally I have to be home by 6. For no reason other than they have to get up early the next day and refuse to go to bed until I'm home so their performance of the next day is my fault.
about 1 year ago
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5908-4-510468925-profile-2153544-0
I really hope you guys can read those.
about 1 year ago
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5908-4-510468925-profile-2153544-0
All my long explanations didn't show up for me...
about 1 year ago
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5908-4-510468925-profile-2153544-0
If you all can't see them, I'll repost what I said in smaller chunks.
about 1 year ago
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5908-4-510468925-profile-2153544-0
but as for my question, what do I need to do? Confront my parents about these things? Or do I just let them happen? What do I do?
about 1 year ago
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5678-9-490611777-profile-2088681-0
how old are you?
about 1 year ago
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5908-4-510468925-profile-2153544-0
I'm not gonna answer that. Sorry...
about 1 year ago
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5908-4-510468925-profile-2153544-0
I'm a legal adult is all I'll say
about 1 year ago
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5678-9-490611777-profile-2088681-0
@jaqi ok. ill accept this answer. have you ever thought of moving out?
about 1 year ago
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5908-4-510468925-profile-2153544-0
That's an issue of money... I don't have enough to support myself...
about 1 year ago
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5678-9-490611777-profile-2088681-0
@jaqi 😕 maybe u can apply for government support? then go to college or sign up for a short training course so that you can get a decently job like nursing aide
about 1 year ago
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5908-4-510468925-profile-2153544-0
That's not a bad idea. I'll look into that, thanks. :)
about 1 year ago
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5908-4-510468925-profile-2153544-0
@💋✌🏻️Beautina💋✌🏻️I just realized none of my responses had your name to them sorry. XD
about 1 year ago
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5678-9-490611777-profile-2088681-0
@jaqi that's ok. you're welcome
about 1 year ago
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5951-16-514224009-profile-640246-0
I think you should talk to your family about that. You should not be their maid and you should not fear them..
about 1 year ago
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6103-3-527311035-profile-2265047-0
I agree with @toast be open and honest with them
10 months ago
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5940-23-513301354-profile-2275593-0
Work as hard as you can to become self sufficient. Get away from them as fast as you can.
10 months ago
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5950-15-514135037-profile-2284462-0
he's an outside perspective so maybe they are
9 months ago
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5908-4-510468925-profile-2153544-0
The reasons he gives as to why he thinks I'm being abused is because of several things. The first is my numbing fear of them. Any time I would need to be confrontational to them I can't because they get angry and I have a very violent mental reaction to their anger. I basically have panic attacks. Btw I'll let you all know for age reference I am legally an adult.
about 1 year ago
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