Do you think a person who has put three children up for adoption should call themselves a mother? Why or why not?

She is the birth mother but the baby won't no about her real mother so the adoption mother in my opinion would be the mother

if she is just careless, def not a mother!

I think it is her choice not to be a mother. If she REALLY loved her kids she wouldn't put them up for adoption she would figure a way out to not make the kids suffer by living in the orphanage for the rest of their childhood

putting up for adoption does not mean orphanage

@Hotso girl that's what I think!

If she put them up for adoption that means she doesn't care for them and she won't see them

Damn! Are they triplets? Did mom and dad get into a fatal car wreck, and that's why they're up for adoption? Cuz that's pretty much the ONLY way adopting out 3 kids is acceptable!!!

she's still a mother- even if she's not a good one. Plus, maybe she did it to save their life/to give them a better life. You never know the situation. Selfless love is a motherly trait.

You never know the situation so please stop judging this person and calling her a bad mother. :( maybe she couldn't support her children or something...

ok well what's the situation? And btw no she's not a mother.

alright well here's the deal. It's ok to do that, and it's ok NOT to be a mother, but a mother is someone who cares for you, takes care of you, tells you your gonna be ok when you fall down. Someone who talks to their daughter about "girl" stuff, or to their son about treating a girl right. Someone who cries when their kid graduates, takes them to the dentist, has inside jokes, and is way overprotective. So this person is not a mother no.

she is the mother though

technically she is the birth mother of the child.

@hollyrenee_ hmmm ok, but not a mother figure, just on the sense that she have birth to them. But still that doesn't make her a bad mother.

if you were a mom you would love them

A birth mother