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Friend told me something that could b dangerous if not told but if I do tell i feel that it will just cause her pain??

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Asked about 10 years ago by userpic h
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5105 15 441128859 profile 474238 0
You should tell someone it could really hurt them. You may think keeping it to yourself is a favor but the best thing to do is to tell someone. I know it's hard but in the long run that's what would be best
about 10 years ago
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4802 5 profile 627535
if it is dangerous not to tell you should tell. If they are a true friend they will understand why you told. Sorry about your situation.
about 10 years ago
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I would need a more clear explaination of what's going on to help more, but I agree with Rosie
about 10 years ago
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4869 17 420745756 profile 688592 0
the truth hurts but lies will leave scars
almost 10 years ago
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4861 14 420041180 profile 618801 0
You should definitely tell someone.
almost 10 years ago
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4850 13 419088100 profile 669362 0
You should tell. If the problem is dangerous which is better losing your friend and knowing you could have prevented it or knowing you prevented something bad from happening and have your friend be safe and ok?
almost 10 years ago
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4965 19 429047403 profile 615719 0
is the problem dangerous to her or to others?
almost 10 years ago
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4884 7 422004521 profile 729549 0
;-; too complicated to understand
over 9 years ago
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4830 5 profile 670008
You should tell someone because if you don't you can hurt them even more. Even if you know that she may be mad at you, but ur doing them a favor.
over 9 years ago
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4997 18 431808674 profile 732543 0
tell! its better to keep someone from harms way while maybe hurting their feelings or whatever than to endanger someone just to keep them happy
over 9 years ago
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5200 15 449335758 profile 739779 0
Sounds like you need to be discussing the whole situation in more detail (than is possible on this app) with someone u trust. However, if there is a real risk your friend may suffer serious harm, if you dont tell, then you should. Is there anyone who you respect and trust who you can maybe talk to abut this, someone who you can trust to keep it confidential, (unless they feel your friends safety is at risk)? Someone who can help you work out what to do next, who wont blab without good reason?
about 9 years ago
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5155 20 445466866 profile 1135603 0
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I understand how you feel I've actually been in this situation myself and I think I know the perfect solution. If she told you something dangerous then you should tell, you might think because she told you not to tell and you might think that it'll cause her more pain your wrong, you're actually helping her. You might think you're being a bad friend, but you're not cause you're looking out for her. You should be scared bout what she told you and if you feel like you can't stop her yourself then tell somebody how you fell and maybe that person could help you. It might work and if not maybe that was what was suppose to happen. I hope everything is ok! Good luck! ☺️ just make sure you tell because you will do her a huge favor and I promise... She'll thank you later😉
about 9 years ago
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5186 20 448144871 profile 1151151 0
I'm very confused
about 9 years ago
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