I feel as if every time I see a baby I want one and as soon as possible and then get dipressed I'm only 13

Hate baby's they freak me out

Oh well u see all if my family hates them and never wants/ wanted one so I haven't told anyone

Its only natural to want a baby, our bodies evolved to reproduce as soon as possible, but not at 13 exactly. Look don't judge me but my cousins friend wanted to go to Uni and get a good job but she got pregnant at 15 and she now is either dead or living of about £5.50 a day. Wait until you have a stable job and a good house, and a fella who won't leave you and the baby.

@Jess k but that's mean bout ur friend and I feel sorry for her if its her in the pic

@Eden wtf

@Jess u post comments and sometimes mean ones on lots of questions and I'm only telling the truth u try to sound high and mighty but ur not and ur only the same age as me so get lost and btw get a new freakin pic

@Eden I was only trying to give you advice sorry for trying to help

@Jess not forgiven because ur pompous and fake is that act u in ur pic

yes it is actually. Sorry but how do you know that I'm pompous and fake? Seeing as I did not know that myself

@Jess becouse u have been posting stuff everywhere giving people rubbish advice and treating them as if they're idiots and u know everything

i don't treat people like idiots I give advice using the things that I've learnt throughout my life and the things that I believe

@Jess oh and how old r u

13

@Jess well so am I so humph

@Jess u post comments and sometimes mean ones on lots of questions and I'm only telling the truth u try to sound high and mighty but ur not and ur only the same age as me so get lost and btw get a new freakin pic

@Eden I was only trying to give you advice sorry for trying to help

@Jess not forgiven because ur pompous and fake is that act u in ur pic

yes it is actually. Sorry but how do you know that I'm pompous and fake? Seeing as I did not know that myself

@Jess becouse u have been posting stuff everywhere giving people rubbish advice and treating them as if they're idiots and u know everything

i don't treat people like idiots I give advice using the things that I've learnt throughout my life and the things that I believe

@Jess oh and how old r u

13

@Jess well so am I so humph

I am 13 and I am not obsessed with babies but I love children and babies and want 3 when I am older xx

Wait until 20 because 13yr olds can't even take care of themselves

@Abdul Dayah I'm really independent don't u dare say we can't look after ourselves there are some 13 yr olds looking after sick parents and younger sibling and some in say Asia were child marriage takes place having kids and running a home and there's that nine year old who's just had a kid

@Eden Abdul Dayah is right. 13 year olds can't look after themselves, even child brides struggle. Yes 13 year olds sometimes look after sick parents but even they wouldn't be able to have a baby. Where would it go when you went to school? Where would it go when you went to college? Do you really think the dad would stick around? Do you know the damage it would do to your body? Do you think your friends would stick around? Where would you live if your parents kicked you out? Which is quite common for pregnant teens and how would you support yourself and the baby?

http://www.movellas.com/book/read/201301312133432241 read this

@Eden I'm talking financially

@Eden an 'Child marriage' is forced. They're pressurised to do it by their family and their culture

@Eden one more thing a 9 yr old girl CANNOT CONCEIVE A CHILD. do you even listen to yourself, u shouldn't be allowed one mile near a baby let alone bear and raise it lol

also what country are you from? Because in England you can't have a full time job until your 16 and they are gonna change that because you need to be in school until 18

*girls

@Abdul Dayah they can if they have gone through puberty very early but it usually destroys there insides and it's very likely to kill them or the baby or both.

@Jess yep true, hips would be too small. But I haven't heard of a girl going through puberty at a 9 but there was one for a boy 8 lol

@Abdul Dayah the youngest person to ever have a baby was 5 she was from Peru in the 1930s and the kid dyed in his 40s way before his mum

@Jess give me the link otherwise I assume you just made that up

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lina_Medina

ok far enough however, the human body has slightly altered itself in this century

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_youngest_birth_mothers That was at the bottom of the page, don't know if you read it but its quite interesting

on my. The one about a 6 yr old Russian girl impregnated by her 69yr old grandad is killing me, gonna tell everyone about that lol

yeah

also when you get up to either 9 or 10 year olds there are a few in 2012

but still have you heard this saying "any fool with a dick can have a baby, but it takes a real man to raise it". I know this isn't about men but them girls did have their babies at ages 5 and 6 but they didn't raise it though. And that's the main thing and also what this poll/crowd is about

yeah I've heard that saying, my mum told me it and said find a real man. My dad did raise me but her first sons dad hated him until he was 13 and then when my brother was 16 he had a kid with a 20 yr old woman and he is helping all he can raising her (he is 33 yrs old now) but they live about an hour away from each other and he has another kid and the mother of that kid is a bitch about him seeing her and me and my mum haven't met her, well my mum met her once before I was born.

@Jess gosh! That sounds like a pretty mess up situation. Try not to get yourselves involved in that. How old r u? And how old you think I am?

I'm 13. Yeah my family is messed up (kinda a joke) and I reckon you are about mid to late 20s

Sorry early to mid 20s

18 actually. But wow, that hurt my feelings lol

Lol sorry. I didn't want to get to young and then be all red faced, tbh I kinda thought you were about 16-18 (no lie) I didn't want to be an idiot though :/

Aww dw about it. your pic isn't clear I though you were older cause of the glasses

yeah I get that a lot lol

@Jess lol

@Abdul Dayah look I didn't mean to get into a fight and my friends having a kid she's 14 and she's fine look I'm just saying its what I want and I am English and I did put adopt as an option

well your friend is mentally and economically unfit to raise that child

@Eden you can't adopt or foster until 21 in the UK

true

@Jess my mum adopting was an option I'm not 2 and I am clever I passed my 11 plus and sats with flying colours and I'm in all the top sets at my grammar school and my friends amazing and she's funny clever and pritty so don't diss her

I didn't 'diss' anyone. I know your not 2. You said your family hates kids. I don't doubt that you are clever and I passed my sats top in my school and I am am also in top set for everything at my community college (although it doesn't sound it a lot better than grammar schools, I was accepted into the one on the other side of town and trust me I went for a couple of months and I bored myself to death) What we are trying to get at is that it is not a good idea to have a kid as most parents would throw you out or make you survive with little help from them and at 13 that would probably land you and the baby in care (probably rarely seeing each other) and if your parents did let you stay then you would spend your teenage years harassed by social services because that baby would be classed as at risk because of your age. The baby would probably have mental or physical issues, you would gain mental or physical problems. You wouldn't be able to get an education because you would have to look after the baby and here's the big one YOU WOULDN'T HAVE ENOUGH MONEY! You can't work full time until 16 in the UK you can have little minimum wage jobs (which even working full time is probably all you will get with no qualifications) but do you know what JUST DO IT! Here's the even harder part go find a 13 year old lad that will actually impregnate you and then stick around. So just go and so it i am done getting abuse go and get pregnant have a baby and make your whole life suck.

@Jess look lets just leave it I speek my mind and that's all I will have a child at the earliest 18

How about u stop bitching saying u want a kid and your depressed.. Go kill yourself then and save us all the trouble of your online bitch rant

@Eden omfg just because u passed your test doesn't mean you can raise a child, I think you need some counselling or something because u are really fucking messed up. You may think you are really independent and mature but ur not. The fact that you want a baby at 13 years old just proves that you are unfit and not mentally stable or mature enough to have a kid. It angers me soo much when people want kids at a young age. Like 3 of my friends were like this and I always told them they were idiots. If u have a kid now, how are you going to get any qualifications and get a job? Oh wait ur not because you haven't even started ur GCSEs yet. U will end up a single mum living off benefits in a council flat with no friends or family. Ur kid will have a shit life and all because u were an immature and idiotic child. You are 13 for heavens sake. Ur still a child yourself. And like the others have been saying, ur body isn't fully developed yet so you wouldn't be able to have a baby properly, normally and safely. Your hips will be too small your fucking body will be too small u will probably not be able to walk when ur bump gets massive and u will end up having a Caesarian section.

@Jess when I saw your picture I thought u were about 10 years old but from reading your comments you sound very smart and I congratulate you for learning from your families mistakes instead of following their tracks, not many young people do that so a big well done to you. @Eden why would you ask this question if you are going to shove everyone's advice back in their faces. They gave brilliant advice.

@Eden your not even legal to have sex yet how the fuck they gonna let u adopt