I have a crush on a guy and I'm pretty sure he likes me too but I can't date yet. What should I do?


I don't care...
76 votes


Other (please comment)
69 votes


Tell him, if he really likes you he'll wait
393 votes


Wait until until you can date
156 votes



Comments

Faith If u like him tht much u would date him secretly

Sunny Day@Faith ya

Sarah @Faith I'm sorry but I know I can't do that...

Sarah but I can't exactly tell him and make him not date any girl for 2 1/2 years but then again I can't watch him date anyone else knowing that he really likes me... Advice?

jeimyrTell him that u like him and then secretly date him

Zoë@Sarah same situation is going on with me :) junior in high school, and I can't date until I'm 18. The boy I like knows I can't date, and he's waiting. Dating in secret is a bad idea because that just shows disrespect and uncertainty of how he could deeply feel about you. If he chooses to wait, then that guy is a keeper :) good luck, lovely!!!

Zoë@Sarah don't listen to the advice of secretly dating =_= that's just ridiculous.

BabyStarbucks🌸Aww just be best friends!❤

NayaSarah don't listen to faith or you'll get into serious trouble

B-radZoe is correct just wait. Don't secretly date. I secretly dated once and my mom found out and doesn't trust me as much anymore,

chaseDate him behind parents back

Zoëthe whole dating behind your parent's back is ridiculous! It shows 1) disrespect for your parents 2) disrespect for yourself and 3) the lack of trust and uncertainty toward the guy you like. If you date someone secretly, then you are uncertain if his feelings for you are valid. It'll be worth it in the long run if you find out that he will actually wait. Because that's what makes him worth it. His devotion. He shows disrespect to you and your parents too if he agrees to such a thing. Don't listen to the people that say secretly date, Sarah. Absolutely bad advice.

👀🌎💰💸🔫😈🙊💯💎@Zoe good advice I would tell her the exact thing

MaddyAre you A Mormon?

Sarah yup

BVB_loveryou guys can still hold hands and be bf/gf but just don't date until you can.

Mahomie4lifetry to be friends

Y0L0 $W@GJust hang out with him until you can date

🌺Jenna🌺Tell him because at least he knows that nothing is wrong with him or your just using him or something👌

I love you Hiddlestonuh nothing. Stop whining

Snipin_All_GodsI say date him behind your parents back.

•brandon•don't date him, just have a thing with him. It's different.

Lora @TheKingIsBack I say that's dumb and just like be bf gf and like not date

⚽❤Rachel❤⚽you should wait to date him and see if you feel Ye same later on

🌺Jenna🌺@⚽👸RACHEL👸⚽ thank you bestie

⚽❤Rachel❤⚽@🐯Jenna🐯aww ily

🌺Jenna🌺@⚽👸RACHEL👸⚽ wuv you

⚽❤Rachel❤⚽@🐯Jenna🐯 haha I know

🌺Jenna🌺@⚽👸RACHEL👸⚽ hahaha Yeap

⚽❤Rachel❤⚽@🐯Jenna🐯do u wanna be with him?!?!

🌺Jenna🌺@⚽👸RACHEL👸⚽ Steven?

⚽❤Rachel❤⚽r u ok?

⚽❤Rachel❤⚽@🐯Jenna🐯

🌺Jenna🌺@⚽👸RACHEL👸⚽ officially no

⚽❤Rachel❤⚽aww sorry

🌺Jenna🌺@⚽👸RACHEL👸⚽ can I die

⚽❤Rachel❤⚽@🐯Jenna🐯no

amirahdaoudiHow do u know that he likes u??!!

taylorfan#1!!!!!!!!date him anyway

You see I gave a fuck once.. Now what is life when no one wants to try. fuck what your parents say date him. If he likes you back, you're just toning to grow up not listening to them anyways

aliDate him anyway fuck parents I agree with @dobryant

Megan Smith@Sarah date but don't tell parents

NYLA:);)Date him anyway just keep it from ur parents

Ethanunzip his pants and see what you're working with

MandaPandawait because getting in trouble won't help at all. If u wait and he really does wait for you, then he's really worth dating. Believe me I talk from experience. It's worth the wait believe me 😉

Brookewait it's better to and if he really likes you then y#he will wait too

KaitlynBe friends with him until your parents lets you date

Chadjust dont date but kiss and crap

orcy64Become his friend, then wait till ur older he won't friendzone you if he really likes