My best friend just told me she hates gays and lesbians. I am lesbian and I am scared to tell her what should I do? 😱

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Tell her and hope for the best
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Stop being her friend
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anyeatell her that your a lesbo and if she says we can't be friends find some one who supports gays and lesbos

Maddy@anyea it's hard she is my childhood best friend and the only one who has always been there for me so if she couldn't accept it I would be devastated 😱

Maddy@anyea plus I am madly in love with her and I can't deal with the fact everyday I look at her and can't tell her an if I told her I would lose her for sure 💔💔

anyea@Maddy we'll tell her and if she's your best friend then she should support u no matter what friends are friends and best friends are forever no matter what

Maddy@anyea You are right, thank you 😘

anyea@Maddy no problem luv we lesbians stay together right lol

Maddy@anyea I really appreciate it tho, I mean I can't talk to anyone about this stuff lol

anyea@Maddy that's why I'm here lol

Maddy@anyea 😘 btw your profile pic tots cute

anyea@Maddy thanks so is yours

Sakanaru@Maddy I know that kitty putty is cray cray dorbs😝

anyea@uranakaS lol thanks it's so adorbs

👑MirandaKnowsWhat'sUp👑I don't know, man. It depends on how much she hates them. If knowing her best friend is lesbian changes her mind about homosexuals, then that's be great. If knowing you're lesbian makes her hate you, then that'd suck. Good friends shouldn't judge you or dislike you for being yourself and being honest, but some people are so blinded by their beliefs that they feel like they have to... I don't want you to lose a friend over something so trivial that doesn't even affect your relationship in any way, but I don't want you to feel uncomfortable or secretive either. Meh. Tough situation. I'm not sure what you should do, honestly. Sorry :/

Maddy@👑MirandaKnowsWhat'sUp👑 It is fine, its so touchy because I love her and even if I tell her I am lesbian I can't tell her I like her and the only reason I wanted to tell her I was is because I want her to know I love her. She makes jokes all the time that i am lesbian because i haven't dated any guys my whole high school years, but than she changes her tone and goes I hope your not that's gross. So I am stuck. :/

👑MirandaKnowsWhat'sUp👑@Maddy Telling her you love her is guaranteed to freak her out... I don't know if that's a good idea. I'm sorry you're in this situation 😓

Maddy@👑MirandaKnowsWhat'sUp👑 I agree, I won't tell her but it's Gnna suck looking at her an knowing she will never love me like I love her but I'll move on :) thanks for taking the time to answer btw ❤️