Is it weird if a 16 year old guy ask out a 13 year old girl? Comment
You'll be judged
46 votes
Yes
220 votes
You should be able to do what you want
41 votes
No
150 votes
Comments
Katieyes and no
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐not all it's who u want to be with so be with her. If u have feelings for someone, it shouldn't matter unless ur 18 and up then It would matter
annaOther ppl would think the wrong thing
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐I dated a 16 year old and I'm 13
Unique pervert alert
wally13hey guys just so you know I'm the 13 year old...................
emraldYEI always thought a person should be no more than 5 years younger or older.
emraldYESo it's not weird.
Unique @wally13 I think age doesn't matter if both people are 18 or older...but ur gonna do what u wanna do anyway but keep in mind that he's older and most likely has more experience than u so be careful
emraldYE@Unique I think if people are 20+ years old, age doesn't matter. But below that, there is a maximum 5 year difference.
emmanem1820I think it's wrong and I'm 13 and I would never at that age you have no idea what's going through the guys head
Unique @emraldYE I said 18 because that's the legal age and that's what I feel, but besides that 13 and 16 year old is wrong but she's going to do what she wants to do
Unique @emraldYE and ur still young yourself u might feel different when you turn 18 because legally you ll be an adult..be able to vote, legally do things without your parents consent...and so much more
emraldYE@Unique Heck yeah, and that'll be 2016, the next election. I'm voting republican.
Unique @emraldYE lol yes it's so much more freedom but I'm a democrat lmao
emraldYE@Unique At the rate we're going, there will never be another republican president again. I hope the media had fun making Bush look bad. Cuz he was the last one. ๐
NblnjnjkbiIt's a yes and no
NblnjnjkbiThe guy might like the girl for who she is but might also hurt her....by listening to his friend
Nblnjnjkbithe stupid friends
wally13@pearl and what would the stupid friends tell him?
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 stuff like oh she's to young break up with her or she's not even our age break up with her
annawhy would a 16 yr old want to date a 13yr old at 13 u don't even know who u r
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@Anna well thts ur opinion
wally13he really is a nice guy he goes to a private school so he's really well mannered also my dad thinks he's cool so I'm just debating weither or not he would think it was a bad idea
annaOh I just thought tht u didn't really know him:) if u want my opinion I think tht u could date him:)
wally13@anna yeah I've been running track with this guy all summer and he's really awesome he always tries to talk to me after practice
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 thts cute
annaaww sounds like he's trying hard:)
wally13I won't see him till next summer because I homeschool and he goes to school and I also don't have any way to contact him so :(
annaU don't hav his #:(:(???
Princess๐๐๐๐Even tho it three years it the fact that ur 13 and he's 16 that weird my cousin went thru that and I was there they fired the guy #he wasn't even cute #lol
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 aww well when u see him next summer then ask him for his information like is id number, phone number, email, social security number, credit card number and everything else ๐น๐น it sounds stalkerish but it's not it's just getting to know him ๐ lol jk just the phone number
wally13@anna no I only recently got a phone and I only saw him once when I had it, he's kind of shy too so I didn't want to go to fast and scare him away
annaHahahaha@moni#stalker:)
annaI hope u guys will go out next summer then it's only a couple months :)
wally13If we get together (crosses fingers) will it be hard if we are at different private high schools?
annanot if u guys hav stuff in common like a sport u both run track right??
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@anna lml
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 it kind of will I had a boy friend the same age and we broke up bc we didn't see each other a lot anymore
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐And bc he was an asshole just saying
wally13@anna yes and we both play the piano
wally13@ะผฯะธฮน Moni did you go to different schools?
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 yea he's in high school and I'm still in middle
annasee u guys could do stuff together@wally13 don't be toooo shy:)
wally13@anna actually I have to tone myself down when I'm around shy or new people because I scare them........
anna@moni ur right most high school realtionships don't last:(
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@Anna ours lasted for a year and a half
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐I mean a year and 3 months oopsies
annahaha me too:) I'm sure you don't scare then though maybe u just freak them out... JK:)
annawhoa thts longer than any of my guys lasted:0
wally13@ะผฯะธฮน Moni was it your first relationship?
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 this kid named Andrew but it was long distance so it didn't work out
wally13will the wardens (parents) think that dating this guy (if it happens) is a bad idea?
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐probably
wally13So this isn't about jack (the one we've been talking about) but you seem to know something about relationships and stuff like that so
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 so wut?
wally13Any advice to get over a crush that is based on looks? Because this guy is a real (vollger three letter word that this app won't let me put) but I can't help but be attracted to him. How do I stop liking this guy?
Unique @emraldYE yeh I hope we never have another bush
Livieya it's weird
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 lol u mean ass?
wally13@ะผฯะธฮน Moni Any advice to get over a crush that is based on looks? Because this guy is a real ass but I can't help but be attracted to him. How do I stop liking this guy?
wally13@ะผฯะธฮน Moni yes
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 if u want to stop liking him then u should focus on other things and don't think about him. Do u like anyone famous?
wally13@ะผฯะธฮน Moni no
annaTht happened to me once I used to have a crush on this one guy who was very cute and nice to me but he was a flirt. Anyway he started talking to me and he like wanted something from me and I stopped liking him .when u actually realize tht he is somebody who won't treasure u for the fortune u are and they won't treat u like u deserve why would u like him?
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 well then what is something tht u love
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐Or u could just avoid him if he ever approaches u
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@anna true
annaUm just wonderin but why do u like him if u know he is a jerk??
wally13@anna idk I went to the fair with him and some friends and I saw the real him (which is kind of out of it and distracted) but he's still kind of cool in a way where like he's half ass half hot nice guy kind of line a mule
annayep@moni I got all the info:)
annasee he is NOT an ass evrybody got som bitch in her nobody is perfect
wally13@ะผฯะธฮน Moni he would never do that (also shy type) but I'll see him next summer as welll but that's what I'm afraid of next summer when I fall for the nice hot half of him again
wally13@anna yes that's true
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 oh well then if u like him then try to see if he likes u and if he likes u back like really truly likes u then give it a shot but if he starts with all of the dumb ass shit then dump his ass
anna@moni true that
wally13he did then people started teasing him he smelled commitment then started being a douche bag and ignoring me so I'll just ignore him. Right?
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 exactly
wally13k cool there are way better guys anyway and I know them
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 Thts the sprite
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐* spirit
annalol @don't settle for the first one;) lol
wally13so I don't have any more questions but anything I should know
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 well boys don't want u to be all clingy and stuff so if they want to go hang out with friends then let him bc he needs some freedom
annadon't sleep with random guys. I serious I girls who do tht and nobody cares bout them or respects them!
wally13Anything else?
annadon't try to change him OR yourself thts important
wally13@anna ..............wtf who would even do that
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 Umm don't just show up at his house and say 'hey let's hang out' at least call him and say 'hey do u want to hang out' and if he has plans, make plans with ur friends bc they probably don't spend time with u anymore bc u have ur bf and stuff
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 lots of people have done tht just bc they like the guy a lot
wally13@ะผฯะธฮน Moni hahahahahaha okay
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 lol but it's true
wally13I doubt they'll tell me where they live but I'll remember that
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 lol trust me if ur dating them they will and they'll ask where u live too it has happened to me
annaSorry if I sounded funny but my bff totally changed for her guy and know she is not my BFF
wally13@ะผฯะธฮน Moni guys have showed up at your house? *shocked look*
wally13@Anna I've heard of people trying to change other people but why change something you already fell in love with right?
anna@Wally13 I meant like his badass side:)
wally13@anna every girl wants a bad boy who is good just for her and every boy wants a good girl who will be bad just for him ~ Instagram quote
annatrue that:)
emraldYE@Unique I hope we never have another Obama.
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 like twice maybe 3 times
wally13@ะผฯะธฮน Moni what did you patents say about that?
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 well I don't have a daddy so my mom just said 'MONI WHO IS THIS BOY HERE I DONT KNOW HIM TELL HIM TO GET AWAY UNLESS HES YOUR BOYFRIEND THEN HE CAN STAY BUT IF NOT THE. TELL HIM TO GET AWAY UNLESS HES UR FRIEND!!!'
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐that was one time she did tht but the other to she just told them to leave
wally13I just died that would be a big deal at my house
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 Lml my mom is weird
anna@moni I think ur mom sounds cool:)
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@Anna we'll she isn't like tht anymore now she's all mean and stuff she's rly old
annaTht sucks:/ my mom is super strict about dating and stuff it really pisses me off!
wally13mom probably wouldn't tell them again and dad wouldn't care unless he hadn't met them before and my brother would probably punch whoever came in the face (a little overprotective)
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@Anna my mom didn't know I was dating my boyfriend so Thts good if she did she would get my brother to kill me then she would bring me back to life and kill me herself
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 that's my brother
wally13I had a secret boyfriend for a year and a half and he came to my birthday dad liked him they really hit it off they where playing the piano at one time it was funny
anna@moni nah she wouldn't I I had a bf she didn't know or something she would kick me outta uh house lml
anna@wally13 u hav a big bro tht is so cool I always wanted a big bro!!
annaTht worked out pretty cool @wally13
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@Anna Lml
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐my big brother is annoying
annaikr:)
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐well not all the time but sometimes
annaat least u even hav one I'm the oldest w two little sisters๐ฃ๐ฃ๐ฃ
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@anna well my bro is freakin 34 and I have a twin bro with autism and another older bro he's 44
wally13@anna im the youngest...of 4
anna@moni ahh I see.
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 I'm like the middle child of 9
anna@wally13 yikes!! Do u get bossed arnd?
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@Anna yea I'm adopted if it didn't make sense to u lol
annaohh I get it;) I was confused for a sec:)
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@anna lml it's alright
wally13@anna uh yes but I was always the alarm because I could get up supper early so I would jump on them. The closest sibling to me is 8 years from me
wally13@ะผฯะธฮน Moni are you the only adopted one if you don't mind me asking
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 lol tht sounds fun
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 no obviously my twin bro Lml and my younger sister and I still have never met my 2 twin brothers. (There twins, not my twins)
wally13@ะผฯะธฮน Moni yes I got back at then that way
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 Lml coolz
wally13@ะผฯะธฮน Moni are they a lot older than you?
anna@wally13 u r so the opposite of me I detest getting up early!!
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 the 2 boy twins? No there like 8-9 years old somethin like tht I may not meet them ever tho
annaWhen u r not close in age to bros and sisters u don't really have anything to talk bout
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@anna sames
wally13@anna i can live on only a few hours of sleep so I'm lots of fun at sleepovers
annayup:)
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 I stay up until like 7 in the morning I have a sleeping disorder
wally13@ะผฯะธฮน Moni can it be fixed?
annaawesome u r really chill!! I go to sleep bout 1130 and wake up at 600 and still feel half dead:)
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 idk but probably
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@anna and yea lol
annaI think I have insomnia cuz I can't sleep at night either
wally13Do you guys drink a lot if caffeine?
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 nope I just can't sleep like ever even on school nights I fall asleep at like 1:30 or so
wally13oh uh I don't have a cure for that then
annaI thinks it bad cuz I nearly fall asleep in my first period class
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 Lml it's alright I could live with it I wake up and I feel tired until like 5 minutes after so I'm good and school is in 2 weeks so my sleeping is gonna be so off ugg stupid school ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ
annaand I don't really drinks tht much coffee
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@anna my mom won't let me drink coffee ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ
wally13@anna i do have a cure for you then all you need to do is gradually change your sleep cycle...
annaI already started school๐๐๐
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 Thts hard bruh
annahow would I go about doing tht??
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@anna when?
annaTuesday:(@moni
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@Anna OMG Thts so early ahh I would die I start next month on the 4th
wally13@anna slowly get up earlier and go to bed earlier slowly very slowly
annalucky buck!!!! What grade??
anna@wally13 thanx 4 the advice I'm def. gonna try tht!!
wally13it's really funny how we went from talking about jack to school and coffee
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@anna 8th
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 Lml yea
annaIkr girl convos are impossible to understand by other ppl
anna@moni I'm a freshman this year:0:0
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@anna what grade in high school or middle?
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@Anna true
annahigh school:)
anna9th
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@Anna oh coolz
annait's 3 am in virginia I am going to try to sleep bye y'all love u:)
wally13bye
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@anna lol kk nighty night it's like almost 3 here
annabyeeeee๐๐๐๐
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@anna tootles
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐I like bananas
wally13@ะผฯะธฮน Moni that doesn't sound weird at all
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 Lml
wally13what the f is the reputation thing on every bodies profile I can't figure it out
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@wally13 like how many times people have voted and stuff I guess
Cutie_1515did he ask u
GigiIf he likes u it's not weird just love
๐Becca๐it depends
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@Cutie_1515 no shit he asked me he asked everyone
๐ะผัััั ยขะฝัฮนััะผฮฑั๐@Cutie_1515 shit sorry nvm
dachshundprincessMy neighbor is 15 and he asked out my 11 year old friend it lasted 2 days
ฤรคลลรฏรซQรผรซรซล No that's just weird
GraceMy mom and my dad are 11years apart so don't feel bad
ฤรคลลรฏรซQรผรซรซล@Grace you are really ugly just saying
๐Becca๐@Cassie right???
โ๐ปJessica_the_Otakuโ๐ป๏ธ@Grace so are mine
โ๐ปJessica_the_Otakuโ๐ป๏ธ@โกฮป$$ลE QUEEโฆ that was not necessary,, if you don't have anything nice to say, then please just don't say it
Dancelover17๐ฌR u 13 and got asked out by a guy who is 16
Sakanaru@โกฮป$$ลE QUEEโฆ
Yeah thats rude๐
ฤรคลลรฏรซQรผรซรซล@fashioncutie no she's a 16 yr old who asked out a 13 yr old ๐๐๐๐
cherry@โกฮป$$ลE QUEEโฆ omg that was so mean god be nice
MayaThat is really weird
๐hahahahaha a 16 year old guy asked me out when I was 13 it was weird