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I have recently found out my friend has been self harming for over 2 years now, what should I do??

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Asked about 11 years ago by userpic Lizzz
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4548 19 profile 125702
poo hop I don't care
about 11 years ago
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4563 18 profile 144119
Self harming can lead to killing! Do u want her to die? Tell an adult
about 11 years ago
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4735 3 profile 296366
Call police
over 10 years ago
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5481 22 473637841 profile 172340 0
Don't call the police you idiot
over 10 years ago
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5481 22 473637841 profile 172340 0
what you should do is tell your student support/ head of year. That's what I did when my friend was self harming really bad and they got her council king and now she has nearly fully recovered. At first she was slightly annoyed that I had told school but she is so greatfull for it now. It will be worth it. Good luck.
over 10 years ago
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4738 7 profile 550842
Be understanding about it
over 10 years ago
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4738 7 profile 550842
Be supportive
over 10 years ago
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4738 7 profile 550842
Convince them that they are worth a lot more than they think and that they shouldnt do this to themselves
over 10 years ago
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4738 7 profile 550842
Reassure them
over 10 years ago
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4769 1 profile 305687
Don't tell her to stop, whatever you do. It'll make her want to to it even more. Self-harming is an addiction and she just can't stop immediately.
over 10 years ago
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5010 17 432925661 profile 430798 0
well I've been doing it for 6 years and I really hate it when people tell other people so I would keep it to yourself and just talk to them and keep them happy
about 10 years ago
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5481 22 473637841 profile 172340 0
@IM THE SHIT! I really don't think it would be wise for her to take advice from you since u have been self harming for years and still are. Clearly you are doing something wrong if you haven't stopped.
about 10 years ago
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5010 17 432925661 profile 430798 0
I'm just saying telling people makes things worse
about 10 years ago
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5481 22 473637841 profile 172340 0
@Jess not the right people.
about 10 years ago
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4822 17 416682610 profile 612825 0
Be supportive
about 10 years ago
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4703 21 profile 189820
i self harm nd it is true it is an addiction I do it wiv anything nd everything my friend spoke to me about it and said everyone wud be so upset if I died nd it got serious I still do it but not as much as I used to I dont recommend telling an adult cuz that just makes u me in my case wanna do it more cuz they will stress which makes u stress
about 10 years ago
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4792 21 profile 626045
tell someone like her parent who can be with her all the time supporting her.
about 10 years ago
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4792 21 profile 626045
@Cuz I can ride!!!!🏇. If you tell an adult they'll help u I done it once with my friend and it worked now her parents support her and they made her move schools they talked to the bullies and their parents and now she's happy if u don't tell an adult ur basically still gonna get bullied coz no body knows about the situation ..
about 10 years ago
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4792 21 profile 626045
Sensible*
about 10 years ago
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