My parent are getting divorced and they want me to choose who to live with....I CANT DECIDE

Have you tried talking to them about joint custody? Like, a week with your father and a week with your mother?

@Rosalina yea totally

That should not be left up to the kid

@💁🏻BakaKawaiiChan💁🏻 It depends on the age, since Amira is 11, she has a bit of a voice in the decision, instead of something like, my situation, where my parents were getting divorced when I was 5, so I had no voice.

Some people stay with one parent the summer and the other the school year. It's effective, and you may fall upon your other parent along the way.

@Rosalina I could do that but my dads moving to British Columbia and my mom is staying in California

@Amira(PVG)(VF) I guess with your mom so you're closer to your school and stuff. You could stay with your dad in the summer, like xoxSpearxox suggested. Depends what you want though, we don't have enough information about your family to make the decision.

@💁🏻BakaKawaiiChan💁🏻 exactly never should

@Amira(PVG)(VF) Wow, that's tough. I would suggest what @Deleted user and @xoxSpearxox are saying, that seems like a fair choice.

@Titanicislife{ABC}(tlf) Thank you

@BillMurraySays: your welcome

I don't believe you since you've lied a lot😒 and I don't think parents would say that if they weren't really angry but just ask them if you can like, stay one week with ur mom and one week with ur dad

I usually visit my dad in the summer. Like go with his family to our cottage. It's really fun😄 now since I live closer I usually visit him every week and we go watch a movie or something