It's is my friends mums birthday to day and she died when my best friend was six how do I talk to her about????????????

Y is everyone voting comment then helping me my friend is really hurting and I don't know what to say she will be crying for about a week

Then not helping me

@Tegan really sorry for your friend and you but I'm not sure. Maybe take her to the cinema? Or something fun xxxxx

@Jess I was gunna say that

do something fun with her. Try not to bring up the subject as it might make her more upset

Get her to open up about it .. And be a good listener , it'll make her feel comfortable to talk about something that personal

I think you must talk about it with she. She must know . Ymm.. You must make to feel comfortable for her. :) I think I help you. Please give me a comment like I help or not.

I think she will like to go to the mall with you are go to see a movie or go and have a sleepover at your house or just do something fun I think that will make her forget it but just remember have fun xxxx im so sorry for you and her xxx have a good time xx !!!! :)

thanks I have taken in all of your comments and have planed a good day on Saturday we r going to chesington then gonna come to my house and have a movie sleep over at mine but also we talked everything over and now she feels much better so thank u xxxxx 😊😊😊😊🎢🎭🎥🍦🍉🍉🍉🍉🍉🍉🍬🍭🍉🍉🍉🍉

@Tegan hey slag u haven't replayed

every1 Tegan is a nasty bitch she said to that girl u mom is dead haha! She came to Skool crying WTF she is proper nasty!

@Aleema no I never said this I don't even know u and I am trying to help my friend who's mum ha died so just get the hell off my question and I don't care what u say I don't let it get me down coz u r just a lonely cow sitting at your screen picking on me a 12 yeah old girl so sort your life about before u start criticising mine okay?

@Tegan is a bitch

Talk to her and see how she feels about the situation and you know just make sure she's okay

@Aleema theres no need for that language now is there???@Tegan same happened to a friend of mine, she'll be ok, you've just got to listen and if she does cry comfort her, but what I find annoys my friend is when people say 'its going to be ok' becAuse she replies with 'but its not ok!' So just hug her and take her to a cafe or something :)

Ask her of she wants to talk about it and tell her that she always has a shoulder to lean on! If she doesn't want to try doing something fun to get her mind off of it

Well take it nice and slow and speak gentle give her a hug and buy her something

and ask if its ok to talk about it

@Aleema nah ur being a bitch

Just be there for her, I lost my dad 10 year ago and it still upsets me on his birthday or Christmas time! My friends are always there for me when I need them like I'm there for them..