if you had to chose between these people and the ones you didn't choose died what would it be?

Friends will always be there for you but family is forever

I'm a girl I'm not marrying a girl

You can count your friends as family too.

@Helin true

Wife is part of the family and some friends too

@user1000 true as well

Fa Moly friend

@Sarka123 he meant spouse but this is men so it would be logical that he puts wife as most men have wives

family are a random group of people you are automatically tied to, friends are people you carefully choose, and spouse is the most important person in your life