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My friend wants to lose her virginity this summer. She's 13. What do I tell her?

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Asked almost 10 years ago by userpic Alyssa <3
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4375 14 profile 28622
tell her she has a whole life to live and if she gets pregnant none of that will happen
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4359 22 profile 59339
@~Brooke~ Thankyou!!!!(:
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4376 18 profile 61037
you will get a disease and probably die so good luck
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4382 6 profile 54485
i agree with both. Plus, 13! Really!?
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4379 17 profile 55412
ok..ok..13??? Um there's a chance you will get pregnant and there are diseases that can follow
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4467 0 profile 38009
13 is a bad age to lose your virginity you will get pregnaut and will ruin your life trust me i know how it feels....
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4410 12 profile 68784
as a thirteen year old girl, you should tell her to imagine her self years from now with a baby, struggling to feed and take care of it and herself, now tell her to imagine her greatest hopes and dreams. Then ask her which do you prefer. Hopefully she chooses her greatest hopes and dreams!
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4599 21 profile 28736
13?? the hell is wrong with this world.. well if she's going to have sex she is probably scared and wont do it
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4380 10 profile 66372
first of all, how old is the guy? Second of all, how does she expect to take care of a kid? Shes obviously not thinking about what happens after it happens
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4400 16 profile 70942
Pregnancy, regret, STDs = consequences of teen sex!!
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4453 2 profile 61793
Why would she want that!!!! U need to set her straight
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4474 5 profile 66296
u need to tell her parents!!!!!
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4816 21 416179351 profile 16070 0
I have an idea, tell her to do anal, oral, or anything else, but not penis to vagina
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4422 1 profile 75731
Nooooooo!! Abstinence is always the answer!!! :)
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4807 14 415375563 profile 65431 0
u have ur whole life ahead of u don't
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4816 21 416179351 profile 16070 0
@creator of randomness, why would sex affect her life?
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4730 13 profile 78907
i don't think you should until you get married so just show her this and all these comments to show her how wrong that is.. Because it totally is! It's even wrong to lose it at 16!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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4807 14 415375563 profile 65431 0
u have ur whole life ahead of u don't
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4816 21 416179351 profile 16070 0
@creator of randomness, why would sex affect her life?
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4730 13 profile 78907
i don't think you should until you get married so just show her this and all these comments to show her how wrong that is.. Because it totally is! It's even wrong to lose it at 16!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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4444 17 profile 75003
you will get pregnant and die.* -mean girls.
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4816 21 416179351 profile 16070 0
@Tÿrah🐘🐵, no you wont, if you read this, HAVE SEX!!!!
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@QuirkyBee I totally agree. She won't lose anything if she chooses abstinence. But, if she has sex, she will loose trust, independence, and if it gets around your school, her reputation, and having a bad reputation at school is never fun. :/
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4422 1 profile 75731
@ayshiac exactly it's just not a good idea. There r too many risks and consequences. Besides it'll be more special if she waits until she does it with a person she really loves (her husband)
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4422 1 profile 75731
@Tÿrah🐘🐵 haha XD
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4422 1 profile 75731
@Sarah u r soooo right!!
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4422 1 profile 75731
show ur friend all these comments!!!
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4446 15 profile 64686
i agree with all of the comments. And tell her that doesn't she want to lose it with that one special guy? I don't think teens can even have a boyfriend for over a month
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4666 21 profile 69270
This girl is crazy have sex when ur married and not at 13 get married at like 27 28
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4422 1 profile 75731
@taylor I couldn't agree more
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4816 21 416179351 profile 16070 0
@Cathy Ryan <3, incorrect, i have been with my girlfriend for almost a year now
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4422 1 profile 75731
@Cathy Ryan <3 omg that is so true!
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4422 4 profile 88234
I think as her friend you should show these comments and tell her your opinion! Then that way she can figure it out for herself and choose to stay safe and wait until that right guy or suffer the possible horrid consequences and become a teen mum, become HIV positive and get an STD
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4418 13 profile 91750
She Is a whore
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4496 2 profile 79988
WTF 13?!?!??
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4394 13 profile 57070
😱😱hoe. I would tell here parents 😈😡
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4433 21 profile 72777
TELL HER THE CONSEQUENCES!
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4513 3 profile 72452
13??? That's way to young to loose your virginity she is gonna get pregnant that is way to young tell he not to have sex untill she is married or a lot older
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4808 5 415429632 profile 89070 0
Tell her no!! Cause if she gets pregnant than she has ruined the rest of her life cuz while y'all go somewhere she can't shell have to watch the baby. Then the 'dad' will prob leave her.
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4425 4 profile 98899
Tell her Hell No don't do it..... No regrets....
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4419 20 profile 68650
men 13 years old!!!!! too young.even too young to get condoms and get birth control pills. She will get pregnant. tell her 13 is too young to have sex and tell her she should wait till right age to have sex.her think she is ready but she isn't.can't do things she want to do she have a baby cuz she have to take care of baby 24/7.
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4816 21 416179351 profile 16070 0
@nikki, she wont get pregnant if she only does oral and anal
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4599 21 profile 28736
@Highqualitydirt you're sick are you a fucking child molester or something?
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4816 21 416179351 profile 16070 0
@SoDevilish, no im just being an asshole
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4422 1 profile 99637
if she does decide to do it she should get birthcontrol.. And use a condom. But not doing it would be the best weekend
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4731 15 profile 102613
How old is the boyfriend anyway
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4730 1 profile 101676
@ryber Bring Her To My House Im 13 & I Have Done It Twice
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4816 21 416179351 profile 16070 0
@No Name, can i come?
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4730 1 profile 101676
You Got Pussy ?
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4816 21 416179351 profile 16070 0
@No Name, i have three
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4599 21 profile 28736
@Highqualitydirt haha you're a funny asshole then
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4730 1 profile 101676
Lol :)
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4816 21 416179351 profile 16070 0
@SoDevilish, thank you ☺
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4444 15 profile 99211
it's your choice. If you're in love, yeah if you're ready. But rely consider it and the consequences.
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4730 1 profile 101676
Really*
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4487 0 profile 68577
she's 13 she has her whole life a head of her why rush it And I promise she will regret it when she's older
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4528 17 profile 105570
She's not wasting anytime but if she insists tell her to be careful and use protection
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4457 13 profile 67654
Telnet
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4599 21 profile 28736
I just realise there are many retards using this app..
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4528 17 profile 105570
i think all the you are going to ruin your life etc etc is a bit of exaggeration
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tell
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4428 23 profile 107999
She is Stupid
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4433 23 profile 113831
wtf.
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4433 18 profile 37794
First of all that's retarded. Her whole life would change. She would lose trust, dignity, and she would be made fun of. She may say well I'm not gonna tell anyone. But any teenage guy would brag to his friends and it would get around. And if she got preggo! Wow. Would her life be screwed. Her parents would probably kill her! She needs to wait until she is older and married. Then it's true love. A little 13 year old is not in love no matter what they say. If she honestly thinks she's in live the she is do desperate.
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4409 13 profile 64334
Liz
What's virginity
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4434 2 profile 102772
way too young!
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4434 2 profile 102772
@Liz oh my god are you serious? Go back to kindergarten
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4889 9 422445587 profile 55647 0
@liz virginity is when you have had sex for the first time
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4411 21 profile 63162
tell her she's to young and someday she will but now is not the time and then you guys should hang out eat some ice cream and chocolate then go shopping
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4445 14 profile 116536
with who pedobear ?
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4559 16 profile 111650
What the hell is wrong with that girl like seriously!!!!! Hasn't she ever heard of teen pregnecy and if she ends up prego the dad ain't gonna stay he's a dumb ass for getting her prego at 13 he definetly ain't gonna stay with that girl
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5190 7 448441382 profile 122773 0
she has a whole life ahead. That will be one of the worst choices she'll ever make in life. Way too young to be even thinking about something like that. Have fun with life. Don't ruin innocence and don't crush your freedom so quickly.
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4493 9 profile 112748
Tell her mother and snap her face
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5190 7 448441382 profile 122773 0
@pretty mee I like this comment
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4548 17 profile 126336
I am 18 and still a virgin. I plan to marry a virgin so we can lose our virginities to each other. If you have sex before, that possibility goes right out the door and you can no longer have that special bond with one person.
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4548 17 profile 126336
@shnahxp at 13 you are not in love. Nobody has ever actually been "in love" at that age. It's too young to comprehend what love is. 16 is better but ppl are stupid. I'd say wait till engagement but that's just an 18yr old guy's opinion
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4447 18 profile 126257
@Highqualitydirt you shouldn't do any of those!!!!!
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4816 21 416179351 profile 16070 0
@Ella, why not?
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4448 10 profile 129304
damn 13 and that's already a concern?? Idc if I sound mean but girls are seriously getting dumber and dumber.
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Yeah @gabriel because you are obviously extremely intellectual and articulate with your advanced vocab what you said is farcical you are benighted
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4559 16 profile 111650
@gabriel u no it's not only girls what bout that boy!? I mean he should no to that its not right and if he really cares bout her then hell wait to........it's not only girls that r getting dumber and dumber
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4448 7 profile 94682
Are you fucking kidding me?! What is this world coming to..
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4493 9 profile 112748
@Zoe thanks ;D
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4559 16 profile 111650
@kalvyn tell me about it
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4752 8 profile 131108
No! OMG no! She's 13 that's like illegal right?
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4438 3 profile 117107
Show her these comments and maybe she will change her mined she can get STD"s and stuff
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4559 16 profile 111650
@HeLLoCuTie omg I didn't even think about that but it is hu???
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4468 12 profile 132768
tell her that that is way to young to even think about having sex!!
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4459 0 profile 130462
@Brooke <3 u r so right. I'm 13 and I am not thinking about s** yet.
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hey I'm 14 and I have a friend who had as and it fucked up there like real talk
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4730 1 profile 101676
She Should Do It Too Have More Expirience She Should Give Me Her Number
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4499 2 profile 108665
Listen, she shouldn't she is way too young. Tell her nicely and make sure she understands what your saying. She could regret it the rest of her life.
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4459 0 profile 130462
@gabbyboboxo exactly
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4499 2 profile 108665
If she doesn't listen you tried and that's basically all you can do. If she regrets it that all on her.
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4452 6 profile 132984
Had my First Time with 13, too. But i Would Talk to her - it isn't Good
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4460 5 profile 116642
PPL WHAT IF SHE DON'T GET PREGNANT!! Idiots... But that's retarded tell her your an idiot
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4528 17 profile 105570
There is a little thing called contraception so unless the girl is brain dead she'll use protection and won't get pregnant and then it's not really a big deal if she does sleep with him
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4730 1 profile 101676
@Eve Thankss That Is What I Was About To Say... I Am 13 And I Was 12 When I Fucked For The First Time Not Sick And Luckly Shes Not A Prego But Anyways Condoms Were Made For A Reason
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4456 14 profile 129024
Mother fucker needs to stop bein a hoe, go get some ice cream, then go play with her baby dolls! Bitch is 13 for cryin out loud
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4464 16 profile 116445
Way too young. It could ruin her life and I think it even might be illegal
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4635 23 profile 59360
Syd
If she really wants to then let her. But make sure she has protection, is on the pill, and understands that even with protection and the pill she can get pregnant and diseases that can KILL her. Virginity isn't something you can loose and by back at a store. You only get to have it once. And her body will release chemicals and make her in love n attached to the person. N she'll bleed n be in pain since its her first time. Good luck!
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Tell her she shouldn't say I support u thru anything! But u r to young and some day you'll regret this! Don't put yourself thru this! You could listen to me or ruin your life! Your choice.
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4467 22 profile 146485
tell her that its worth saving
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4467 22 profile 146485
i don't know cause I'm 13 also, but my parents told me. Why would she want to? Peer pressure?
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4816 21 416179351 profile 16070 0
@Mariah03, fun
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4559 16 profile 111650
@Highqualitydirt what that mean
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4816 21 416179351 profile 16070 0
@alyssa, sex is extremely enjoyable
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4559 16 profile 111650
@Highqualitydirt what the hell y u telling a 13 year old girl that
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4816 21 416179351 profile 16070 0
@alyssa, i think she would know already
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4528 17 profile 105570
@alyssa she's 13 not 5 she obviously knows sex is for enjoyment
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4467 22 profile 146485
yes thanks I know tht! And I'm here also. But I know that u should save urself. No matter why some random asshole jerk like @HighQualityDirt" says. Tell ur friend that she needs to wait. No matter what the reason is, it's not worth sacrificing so much stuff and dreams for just stupid enjoyment.
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4816 21 416179351 profile 16070 0
@Mariah03, what stuff and dreams?
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4467 22 profile 146485
the stuff that she wants to so and the dreams. Are u a girl or boy? Cause if ur a girl then is know that it's not worth giving up stuff and quality time to have to take care of a baby or deal with whatever consequences will come.?!/:)
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4816 21 416179351 profile 16070 0
@Mariah03, did you know that sex doesn't have to lead to birth
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4559 16 profile 111650
@Highqualitydirt well whatever idc if she wants to ruin her life for one hour of fun she got problems and especially to a boy who Is gonna leave
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4816 21 416179351 profile 16070 0
@alyssa, A, how do you know he will leave B: how will it "ruin her life"
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4559 16 profile 111650
nvm if u don't no then good luck
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4816 21 416179351 profile 16070 0
@alyssa, ah, haha, so you dont have any reasons
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4559 16 profile 111650
ya not now though
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4816 21 416179351 profile 16070 0
@alyssa, he he, sure
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4467 22 profile 146485
thanks u Alyssa! It's ur friend and u can say what u want. And "qualitydirt" duh I know that. But why waist the time when u could do other stuff and then just wait for the right time? Like once ur married?!
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4816 21 416179351 profile 16070 0
@Mariah03, "waste your time"...."do other stuff"..... I dont think you understand how good sex is
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4467 22 profile 146485
i understand its good. Who doesn't. But then it'll just make it more exciting and fun when u wait for the right person. Not some stupid immature boy. Cause all boys are stupid and immature. And he's just gonna leave here anyways. All I'm saying is to just wait.
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4816 21 416179351 profile 16070 0
@Mariah03, A:how do you know the boy will leave her? B: by what basis do you say that all boys are stupid and immature? C: how do you know it makes it better to wait?
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4467 22 profile 146485
cause all boys are like that until a certain age where they start to mature?! Duh.?! Like I said." When ur wife/husband asks u what I've done in the past, do u think they will like hearing that u didn't save urself and keep urself pure? Plus even the bible says that sex is for marriage. That's it's a crime to have sex before marriage.
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4528 17 profile 105570
@Mariah03 the bibles a bit outdated on the whole sex thing
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4816 21 416179351 profile 16070 0
@Mariah03, let me tell you something, im 14, i am a male, i have a girlfriend, i have been with her for a year, i have never pressured her into anything, i have never cheated, does that sound stupid and immature
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4559 16 profile 111650
@Highqualitydirt cuz they never do
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4559 16 profile 111650
@Mariah03 and I don't no the girl at all so quit assuming shit but I do no that if there is a guy who is goin to knock a girl up at 13 he ain't gonna stay with her like what the hell what's this world comin to
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4816 21 416179351 profile 16070 0
@alyssa, read my previous comment
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4730 1 profile 101676
@CUPOFPWNGE How Is That Illigal ? Tell Me Pls . i Did It When I Was Twelve
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4599 21 profile 28736
@Highqualitydirt you are really clever for a 14 year old boy :p
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4816 21 416179351 profile 16070 0
@SoDevilish, why thank you :)
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4695 2 profile 145172
wait till married
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4465 8 profile 144604
It's stupid. It's not something you should plan. It'll happen when the time is right
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4475 15 profile 167146
if she really wants to have sex than buy condoms! Or have sex with her yourself to give her the experience of the sex life!!
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4475 15 profile 167146
@Highqualitydirt Honestly… no teenage boy is just going to anal or oral. Teenage boys want there penis in a vagina not just a butt!!:!
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4509 20 profile 160041
i don't think it's logical to call her a retard just for being a normal teenager. I'm not saying I think she should go ahead and do it but in the end it is her decision. But I see that you're a real friend of hers and care about her and don't want her to do that at such a young age you know? But instead of being even a little bit rude about it, I would just have a conversation with her about all of the things that could go wrong to show her that you care. If that doesn't work and she is stubborn about it, there's nothing you can do except say that you tried you know ? Anyways I know this is long but I hope it helped
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4927 21 425768608 profile 133051 0
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@No Name WTF yeah you can use protection but have you ever thought about the feeakin condom breaking!!!!! Your such a pervert!!!!! Or a hoe!!! Either way your wrong! Ask her this does she want to start a new tv show called 13 and Pregnant!!! It's bad enough we have a show called 16 and Pregnant!!!!!!!!!
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4478 15 profile 174541
she's 13!!! Like, NO! Unless of course she wants to get STDs and get pregnant and disgrace her family and become the local whore. Whatever floats her boat...
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4816 21 416179351 profile 16070 0
@Bug>8D, spoiler alert, sex does not always equal child or aids, there are condoms and abortions for that
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4478 15 profile 174541
@Highqualitydirt I know that, but personally I'm against abortions & what happens if the condom breaks? She's screwed. & 13 is still too young to be having sex anyways.
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4816 21 416179351 profile 16070 0
@KatelynElisabethGreer, explain to me why
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4478 15 profile 174541
@Highqualitydirt I know that, but personally I'm against abortions & what happens if the condom breaks? She's screwed. & 13 is still too young to be having sex anyways.
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4816 21 416179351 profile 16070 0
@KatelynElisabethGreer, explain to me why
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4654 3 profile 163731
@Highqualitydirt u r s sick... And very childish
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4927 21 425768608 profile 133051 0
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@Cehrebhadd I completely agree with u!!!!!!!
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personally I think u shouldn't have sex until ur married & ur with the one person u luv but u should tell her what u think and show her these comments
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4587 23 profile 250711
@Highqualitydirt. I have to agree
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4927 21 425768608 profile 133051 0
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@joy u agree with him???!!
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4596 18 profile 250215
She is way to young is she out of her mind!!! She could get pregnant!!
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4606 16 profile 278113
SHE IS TOO YOUNG... DONT DO IT
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4746 11 profile 288559
@Brooke <3 she can use a condom
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4536 0 profile 230900
Is Shee Zummbb ! Fast Ass Kidss !! She got ha whole lifee!
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4551 6 profile 294182
just tell her maybe your right but think about it because you've got your whole life ahead of you ok because then she might not do it but if she decides not to listen then that was her choice and she made the wrong decision
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4647 23 profile 291988
TELL HER NO!! wayyy too young...
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4576 8 profile 152222
no just use a condom but idt she should cuz she's going live a long life if she keeps her virginity and if she doesn't then she won't live as long b/ she'll get std ikr @David
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4670 21 profile 203364
just don't do it
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maybe a bit early wait a bit just tell her the truth of what u think about this
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There is a girl in my class, that is 17 now, but when she was 13 she had sex 3 times with one guy and she thought it was the best thing ever so she kept doing it. Finally when the word spread around the school, she was completely hated. Everyone thought she was a slut and a whore. And it was all bcuz of one stupid decision that the both of them made and it ruined both of their lives. She still feels awful. The boy was so hurt. He killed himself. It was awful. So tell her to think about this before she makes any decisions. ;)
about 9 years ago
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4730 13 profile 78907
@Highqualitydirt no that does not sound immature but what does is that your encouraging teenage sex
about 9 years ago
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5606 17 484421188 profile 394500 0
tell her no unless she wants to be called a slut throughout her teenage years
about 9 years ago
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4730 13 profile 78907
Here is what is probably going to happen if she tries this at such a young age STIs: this is the new term for STD, meaning sexually transmitted infections. These different infractions are spreading faster and faster in teens due to our ridiculous society that encourages pre mature sex. She could get stuck with any disease for the rest of her life considering a good amount of them DO NOT HAVE A CURE. And it could prevent her form ever having children. Think about her in about ten years finally getting married to her love but then saying to him that she can never have sex with him or have children with him because the doesn't want him to endure the infection that she has had to deal with all because of a stupid decision she made as a stupid teenager, and yes! Teenagers are stupid, why do you think we're still in school! Pregnancy: Even with a condom IT COULD BREAK AND YOU COULD STILL GET PREGNANT! Even if it doesn't break there is a chance of it just not working then she would have to get an abortion which I think is just ethically wrong but otherwise she would have to leave school to take care of her child and she would not get a good education, and from there what kind of job would she be able to get!?!?! She wouldn't be able to live with her parents forever! Social life: as @kenzie told, girls are definitely criticized in losing their virginity especially at such a young age. I think that you should know there are bullies, even if it is an untrue rumor a lot of people have committed suicide because they were constantly called sluts and whores. So please, don't let that ever happen to somebody you care about.
about 9 years ago
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4730 13 profile 78907
Pregnancy: even if the she does use a condom it is not 100% effective she could still get pregnant! And when she does she would either have to get an abortion which really is just ethically wrong or she would have to drop out of school and never get an education and when she is an adult what kind of job is she supposed to get without a high school education!?!? She can't live with her parents forever!
about 9 years ago
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4730 13 profile 78907
social life: as Kenzie told people's lives are ruined because of that choice. Even girls that never actually lost their virginity are bullied every day being called sluts and whores which does lead to suicide especially if they did do it, the guilt of going against moral values. So please don't let this happen to anybody you care about, ever.
about 9 years ago
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4730 13 profile 78907
@SoDevilish don't call lowqualitydirt a clever 14 year old while I'm in the room
about 9 years ago
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4951 21 427845405 profile 309815 0
@Sarah. Thank you for backing me up. It is sometimes a disgrace to everyone else, but most of all you are disgracing yourself. You make that decision to pretty much ruin your life, what are you supposed to do after that. She is going to want to grow up, get a job, have a good education, makr some money, find the man of her dreams and have kids. Just please tell her to think. Please?!?
about 9 years ago
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4666 13 profile 441679
Oh snap! Get it girl. Is Exactly what she needs to hear.
about 9 years ago
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4869 17 420745756 profile 688592 0
just tell her that she's to young and to wait till she's old enough and the time is right
over 8 years ago
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5779 22 499388068 profile 690603 0
good for her!
over 8 years ago
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5707 3 profile 477722
I. Hate. Society.
over 8 years ago
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4977 23 430095941 profile 657150 0
Holy crap wait a few years
over 8 years ago
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5063 14 437494536 profile 869470 0
Nij
these girls in this time are trying to grow up so fast, sheesh, why don't they enjoy being kids geez louise
about 8 years ago
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5171 5 446793785 profile 1150649 0
puh-leaze! That is such a stupid thought to even have. And at 13?? Is she dreamin? Wholy shit fit!
almost 8 years ago
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I am reading all of the comments and yea .. no she is 13 she is going through that time of her life where she is gonna want to see and feel things all you guys have to do is tell her the right thing not she going to die if she does it all I will say is wait till you are a little bit older
about 1 year ago
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