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My friend wants to lose her virginity this summer. She's 13. What do I tell her?

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4375-14-profile-28622
tell her she has a whole life to live and if she gets pregnant none of that will happen
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4359-22-profile-59339
@~Brooke~ Thankyou!!!!(:
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4376-18-profile-61037
you will get a disease and probably die so good luck
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4382-6-profile-54485
i agree with both. Plus, 13! Really!?
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4379-17-profile-55412
ok..ok..13??? Um there's a chance you will get pregnant and there are diseases that can follow
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4467-0-profile-38009
13 is a bad age to lose your virginity you will get pregnaut and will ruin your life trust me i know how it feels....
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4410-12-profile-68784
as a thirteen year old girl, you should tell her to imagine her self years from now with a baby, struggling to feed and take care of it and herself, now tell her to imagine her greatest hopes and dreams. Then ask her which do you prefer. Hopefully she chooses her greatest hopes and dreams!
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4599-21-profile-28736
13?? the hell is wrong with this world.. well if she's going to have sex she is probably scared and wont do it
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4380-10-profile-66372
first of all, how old is the guy? Second of all, how does she expect to take care of a kid? Shes obviously not thinking about what happens after it happens
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4400-16-profile-70942
Pregnancy, regret, STDs = consequences of teen sex!!
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4453-2-profile-61793
Why would she want that!!!! U need to set her straight
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4474-5-profile-66296
u need to tell her parents!!!!!
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4816-21-416179351-profile-16070-0
I have an idea, tell her to do anal, oral, or anything else, but not penis to vagina
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4422-1-profile-75731
Nooooooo!! Abstinence is always the answer!!! :)
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4807-14-415375563-profile-65431-0
u have ur whole life ahead of u don't
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4816-21-416179351-profile-16070-0
@creator of randomness, why would sex affect her life?
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4730-13-profile-78907
i don't think you should until you get married so just show her this and all these comments to show her how wrong that is.. Because it totally is! It's even wrong to lose it at 16!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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4807-14-415375563-profile-65431-0
u have ur whole life ahead of u don't
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4816-21-416179351-profile-16070-0
@creator of randomness, why would sex affect her life?
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4730-13-profile-78907
i don't think you should until you get married so just show her this and all these comments to show her how wrong that is.. Because it totally is! It's even wrong to lose it at 16!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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4444-17-profile-75003
you will get pregnant and die.* -mean girls.
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4816-21-416179351-profile-16070-0
@Tÿrah🐘🐵, no you wont, if you read this, HAVE SEX!!!!
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@QuirkyBee I totally agree. She won't lose anything if she chooses abstinence. But, if she has sex, she will loose trust, independence, and if it gets around your school, her reputation, and having a bad reputation at school is never fun. :/
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4422-1-profile-75731
@ayshiac exactly it's just not a good idea. There r too many risks and consequences. Besides it'll be more special if she waits until she does it with a person she really loves (her husband)
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4422-1-profile-75731
@Tÿrah🐘🐵 haha XD
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4422-1-profile-75731
@Sarah u r soooo right!!
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4422-1-profile-75731
show ur friend all these comments!!!
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4446-15-profile-64686
i agree with all of the comments. And tell her that doesn't she want to lose it with that one special guy? I don't think teens can even have a boyfriend for over a month
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4666-21-profile-69270
This girl is crazy have sex when ur married and not at 13 get married at like 27 28
over 5 years ago
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4422-1-profile-75731
@taylor I couldn't agree more
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4816-21-416179351-profile-16070-0
@Cathy Ryan <3, incorrect, i have been with my girlfriend for almost a year now
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4422-1-profile-75731
@Cathy Ryan <3 omg that is so true!
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4422-4-profile-88234
I think as her friend you should show these comments and tell her your opinion! Then that way she can figure it out for herself and choose to stay safe and wait until that right guy or suffer the possible horrid consequences and become a teen mum, become HIV positive and get an STD
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4418-13-profile-91750
She Is a whore
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4496-2-profile-79988
WTF 13?!?!??
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4394-13-profile-57070
😱😱hoe. I would tell here parents 😈😡
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4433-21-profile-72777
TELL HER THE CONSEQUENCES!
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4513-3-profile-72452
13??? That's way to young to loose your virginity she is gonna get pregnant that is way to young tell he not to have sex untill she is married or a lot older
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4808-5-415429632-profile-89070-0
Tell her no!! Cause if she gets pregnant than she has ruined the rest of her life cuz while y'all go somewhere she can't shell have to watch the baby. Then the 'dad' will prob leave her.
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4425-4-profile-98899
Tell her Hell No don't do it..... No regrets....
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4419-20-profile-68650
men 13 years old!!!!! too young.even too young to get condoms and get birth control pills. She will get pregnant. tell her 13 is too young to have sex and tell her she should wait till right age to have sex.her think she is ready but she isn't.can't do things she want to do she have a baby cuz she have to take care of baby 24/7.
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4816-21-416179351-profile-16070-0
@nikki, she wont get pregnant if she only does oral and anal
over 5 years ago
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4599-21-profile-28736
@Highqualitydirt you're sick are you a fucking child molester or something?
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4816-21-416179351-profile-16070-0
@SoDevilish, no im just being an asshole
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4422-1-profile-99637
if she does decide to do it she should get birthcontrol.. And use a condom. But not doing it would be the best weekend
over 5 years ago
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4731-15-profile-102613
How old is the boyfriend anyway
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4730-1-profile-101676
@ryber Bring Her To My House Im 13 & I Have Done It Twice
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4816-21-416179351-profile-16070-0
@No Name, can i come?
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4730-1-profile-101676
You Got Pussy ?
over 5 years ago
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4816-21-416179351-profile-16070-0
@No Name, i have three
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4599-21-profile-28736
@Highqualitydirt haha you're a funny asshole then
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4730-1-profile-101676
Lol :)
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4816-21-416179351-profile-16070-0
@SoDevilish, thank you ☺
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4444-15-profile-99211
it's your choice. If you're in love, yeah if you're ready. But rely consider it and the consequences.
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4730-1-profile-101676
Really*
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4487-0-profile-68577
she's 13 she has her whole life a head of her why rush it And I promise she will regret it when she's older
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4528-17-profile-105570
She's not wasting anytime but if she insists tell her to be careful and use protection
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4457-13-profile-67654
Telnet
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4599-21-profile-28736
I just realise there are many retards using this app..
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4528-17-profile-105570
i think all the you are going to ruin your life etc etc is a bit of exaggeration
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tell
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4428-23-profile-107999
She is Stupid
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4433-23-profile-113831
wtf.
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4433-18-profile-37794
First of all that's retarded. Her whole life would change. She would lose trust, dignity, and she would be made fun of. She may say well I'm not gonna tell anyone. But any teenage guy would brag to his friends and it would get around. And if she got preggo! Wow. Would her life be screwed. Her parents would probably kill her! She needs to wait until she is older and married. Then it's true love. A little 13 year old is not in love no matter what they say. If she honestly thinks she's in live the she is do desperate.
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Liz
What's virginity
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4434-2-profile-102772
way too young!
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4434-2-profile-102772
@Liz oh my god are you serious? Go back to kindergarten
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4889-9-422445587-profile-55647-0
@liz virginity is when you have had sex for the first time
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4411-21-profile-63162
tell her she's to young and someday she will but now is not the time and then you guys should hang out eat some ice cream and chocolate then go shopping
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4445-14-profile-116536
with who pedobear ?
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4559-16-profile-111650
What the hell is wrong with that girl like seriously!!!!! Hasn't she ever heard of teen pregnecy and if she ends up prego the dad ain't gonna stay he's a dumb ass for getting her prego at 13 he definetly ain't gonna stay with that girl
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5190-7-448441382-profile-122773-0
she has a whole life ahead. That will be one of the worst choices she'll ever make in life. Way too young to be even thinking about something like that. Have fun with life. Don't ruin innocence and don't crush your freedom so quickly.
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4493-9-profile-112748
Tell her mother and snap her face
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5190-7-448441382-profile-122773-0
@pretty mee I like this comment
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4548-17-profile-126336
I am 18 and still a virgin. I plan to marry a virgin so we can lose our virginities to each other. If you have sex before, that possibility goes right out the door and you can no longer have that special bond with one person.
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4548-17-profile-126336
@shnahxp at 13 you are not in love. Nobody has ever actually been "in love" at that age. It's too young to comprehend what love is. 16 is better but ppl are stupid. I'd say wait till engagement but that's just an 18yr old guy's opinion
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4447-18-profile-126257
@Highqualitydirt you shouldn't do any of those!!!!!
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4816-21-416179351-profile-16070-0
@Ella, why not?
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4448-10-profile-129304
damn 13 and that's already a concern?? Idc if I sound mean but girls are seriously getting dumber and dumber.
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Yeah @gabriel because you are obviously extremely intellectual and articulate with your advanced vocab what you said is farcical you are benighted
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4559-16-profile-111650
@gabriel u no it's not only girls what bout that boy!? I mean he should no to that its not right and if he really cares bout her then hell wait to........it's not only girls that r getting dumber and dumber
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4448-7-profile-94682
Are you fucking kidding me?! What is this world coming to..
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4493-9-profile-112748
@Zoe thanks ;D
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4559-16-profile-111650
@kalvyn tell me about it
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4752-8-profile-131108
No! OMG no! She's 13 that's like illegal right?
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4438-3-profile-117107
Show her these comments and maybe she will change her mined she can get STD"s and stuff
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4559-16-profile-111650
@HeLLoCuTie omg I didn't even think about that but it is hu???
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4468-12-profile-132768
tell her that that is way to young to even think about having sex!!
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4459-0-profile-130462
@Brooke <3 u r so right. I'm 13 and I am not thinking about s** yet.
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hey I'm 14 and I have a friend who had as and it fucked up there like real talk
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4730-1-profile-101676
She Should Do It Too Have More Expirience She Should Give Me Her Number
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4499-2-profile-108665
Listen, she shouldn't she is way too young. Tell her nicely and make sure she understands what your saying. She could regret it the rest of her life.
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4459-0-profile-130462
@gabbyboboxo exactly
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4499-2-profile-108665
If she doesn't listen you tried and that's basically all you can do. If she regrets it that all on her.
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4452-6-profile-132984
Had my First Time with 13, too. But i Would Talk to her - it isn't Good
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4460-5-profile-116642
PPL WHAT IF SHE DON'T GET PREGNANT!! Idiots... But that's retarded tell her your an idiot
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4528-17-profile-105570
There is a little thing called contraception so unless the girl is brain dead she'll use protection and won't get pregnant and then it's not really a big deal if she does sleep with him
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4730-1-profile-101676
@Eve Thankss That Is What I Was About To Say... I Am 13 And I Was 12 When I Fucked For The First Time Not Sick And Luckly Shes Not A Prego But Anyways Condoms Were Made For A Reason
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4456-14-profile-129024
Mother fucker needs to stop bein a hoe, go get some ice cream, then go play with her baby dolls! Bitch is 13 for cryin out loud
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4464-16-profile-116445
Way too young. It could ruin her life and I think it even might be illegal
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Syd
If she really wants to then let her. But make sure she has protection, is on the pill, and understands that even with protection and the pill she can get pregnant and diseases that can KILL her. Virginity isn't something you can loose and by back at a store. You only get to have it once. And her body will release chemicals and make her in love n attached to the person. N she'll bleed n be in pain since its her first time. Good luck!
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Tell her she shouldn't say I support u thru anything! But u r to young and some day you'll regret this! Don't put yourself thru this! You could listen to me or ruin your life! Your choice.
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4467-22-profile-146485
tell her that its worth saving
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4467-22-profile-146485
i don't know cause I'm 13 also, but my parents told me. Why would she want to? Peer pressure?
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4816-21-416179351-profile-16070-0
@Mariah03, fun
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4559-16-profile-111650
@Highqualitydirt what that mean
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4816-21-416179351-profile-16070-0
@alyssa, sex is extremely enjoyable
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4559-16-profile-111650
@Highqualitydirt what the hell y u telling a 13 year old girl that
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4816-21-416179351-profile-16070-0
@alyssa, i think she would know already
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4528-17-profile-105570
@alyssa she's 13 not 5 she obviously knows sex is for enjoyment
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4467-22-profile-146485
yes thanks I know tht! And I'm here also. But I know that u should save urself. No matter why some random asshole jerk like @HighQualityDirt" says. Tell ur friend that she needs to wait. No matter what the reason is, it's not worth sacrificing so much stuff and dreams for just stupid enjoyment.
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4816-21-416179351-profile-16070-0
@Mariah03, what stuff and dreams?
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4467-22-profile-146485
the stuff that she wants to so and the dreams. Are u a girl or boy? Cause if ur a girl then is know that it's not worth giving up stuff and quality time to have to take care of a baby or deal with whatever consequences will come.?!/:)
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4816-21-416179351-profile-16070-0
@Mariah03, did you know that sex doesn't have to lead to birth
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4559-16-profile-111650
@Highqualitydirt well whatever idc if she wants to ruin her life for one hour of fun she got problems and especially to a boy who Is gonna leave
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4816-21-416179351-profile-16070-0
@alyssa, A, how do you know he will leave B: how will it "ruin her life"
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4559-16-profile-111650
nvm if u don't no then good luck
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4816-21-416179351-profile-16070-0
@alyssa, ah, haha, so you dont have any reasons
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4559-16-profile-111650
ya not now though
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4816-21-416179351-profile-16070-0
@alyssa, he he, sure
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4467-22-profile-146485
thanks u Alyssa! It's ur friend and u can say what u want. And "qualitydirt" duh I know that. But why waist the time when u could do other stuff and then just wait for the right time? Like once ur married?!
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4816-21-416179351-profile-16070-0
@Mariah03, "waste your time"...."do other stuff"..... I dont think you understand how good sex is
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4467-22-profile-146485
i understand its good. Who doesn't. But then it'll just make it more exciting and fun when u wait for the right person. Not some stupid immature boy. Cause all boys are stupid and immature. And he's just gonna leave here anyways. All I'm saying is to just wait.
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@Mariah03, A:how do you know the boy will leave her? B: by what basis do you say that all boys are stupid and immature? C: how do you know it makes it better to wait?
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4467-22-profile-146485
cause all boys are like that until a certain age where they start to mature?! Duh.?! Like I said." When ur wife/husband asks u what I've done in the past, do u think they will like hearing that u didn't save urself and keep urself pure? Plus even the bible says that sex is for marriage. That's it's a crime to have sex before marriage.
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4528-17-profile-105570
@Mariah03 the bibles a bit outdated on the whole sex thing
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@Mariah03, let me tell you something, im 14, i am a male, i have a girlfriend, i have been with her for a year, i have never pressured her into anything, i have never cheated, does that sound stupid and immature
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4559-16-profile-111650
@Highqualitydirt cuz they never do
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4559-16-profile-111650
@Mariah03 and I don't no the girl at all so quit assuming shit but I do no that if there is a guy who is goin to knock a girl up at 13 he ain't gonna stay with her like what the hell what's this world comin to
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4816-21-416179351-profile-16070-0
@alyssa, read my previous comment
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4730-1-profile-101676
@CUPOFPWNGE How Is That Illigal ? Tell Me Pls . i Did It When I Was Twelve
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4599-21-profile-28736
@Highqualitydirt you are really clever for a 14 year old boy :p
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@SoDevilish, why thank you :)
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4695-2-profile-145172
wait till married
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4465-8-profile-144604
It's stupid. It's not something you should plan. It'll happen when the time is right
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4475-15-profile-167146
if she really wants to have sex than buy condoms! Or have sex with her yourself to give her the experience of the sex life!!
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4475-15-profile-167146
@Highqualitydirt Honestly… no teenage boy is just going to anal or oral. Teenage boys want there penis in a vagina not just a butt!!:!
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4509-20-profile-160041
i don't think it's logical to call her a retard just for being a normal teenager. I'm not saying I think she should go ahead and do it but in the end it is her decision. But I see that you're a real friend of hers and care about her and don't want her to do that at such a young age you know? But instead of being even a little bit rude about it, I would just have a conversation with her about all of the things that could go wrong to show her that you care. If that doesn't work and she is stubborn about it, there's nothing you can do except say that you tried you know ? Anyways I know this is long but I hope it helped
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@No Name WTF yeah you can use protection but have you ever thought about the feeakin condom breaking!!!!! Your such a pervert!!!!! Or a hoe!!! Either way your wrong! Ask her this does she want to start a new tv show called 13 and Pregnant!!! It's bad enough we have a show called 16 and Pregnant!!!!!!!!!
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4478-15-profile-174541
she's 13!!! Like, NO! Unless of course she wants to get STDs and get pregnant and disgrace her family and become the local whore. Whatever floats her boat...
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4816-21-416179351-profile-16070-0
@Bug>8D, spoiler alert, sex does not always equal child or aids, there are condoms and abortions for that
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4478-15-profile-174541
@Highqualitydirt I know that, but personally I'm against abortions & what happens if the condom breaks? She's screwed. & 13 is still too young to be having sex anyways.
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@KatelynElisabethGreer, explain to me why
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4478-15-profile-174541
@Highqualitydirt I know that, but personally I'm against abortions & what happens if the condom breaks? She's screwed. & 13 is still too young to be having sex anyways.
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@KatelynElisabethGreer, explain to me why
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4654-3-profile-163731
@Highqualitydirt u r s sick... And very childish
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4927-21-425768608-profile-133051-0
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@Cehrebhadd I completely agree with u!!!!!!!
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personally I think u shouldn't have sex until ur married & ur with the one person u luv but u should tell her what u think and show her these comments
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4587-23-profile-250711
@Highqualitydirt. I have to agree
over 5 years ago
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4927-21-425768608-profile-133051-0
Dj
@joy u agree with him???!!
over 5 years ago
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4596-18-profile-250215
She is way to young is she out of her mind!!! She could get pregnant!!
over 5 years ago
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4606-16-profile-278113
SHE IS TOO YOUNG... DONT DO IT
over 5 years ago
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4746-11-profile-288559
@Brooke <3 she can use a condom
over 5 years ago
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4536-0-profile-230900
Is Shee Zummbb ! Fast Ass Kidss !! She got ha whole lifee!
over 5 years ago
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4551-6-profile-294182
just tell her maybe your right but think about it because you've got your whole life ahead of you ok because then she might not do it but if she decides not to listen then that was her choice and she made the wrong decision
over 5 years ago
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4647-23-profile-291988
TELL HER NO!! wayyy too young...
over 5 years ago
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4576-8-profile-152222
no just use a condom but idt she should cuz she's going live a long life if she keeps her virginity and if she doesn't then she won't live as long b/ she'll get std ikr @David
over 5 years ago
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4670-21-profile-203364
just don't do it
over 5 years ago
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maybe a bit early wait a bit just tell her the truth of what u think about this
about 5 years ago
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4951-21-427845405-profile-309815-0
There is a girl in my class, that is 17 now, but when she was 13 she had sex 3 times with one guy and she thought it was the best thing ever so she kept doing it. Finally when the word spread around the school, she was completely hated. Everyone thought she was a slut and a whore. And it was all bcuz of one stupid decision that the both of them made and it ruined both of their lives. She still feels awful. The boy was so hurt. He killed himself. It was awful. So tell her to think about this before she makes any decisions. ;)
almost 5 years ago
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4730-13-profile-78907
@Highqualitydirt no that does not sound immature but what does is that your encouraging teenage sex
almost 5 years ago
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5606-17-484421188-profile-394500-0
tell her no unless she wants to be called a slut throughout her teenage years
almost 5 years ago
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4730-13-profile-78907
Here is what is probably going to happen if she tries this at such a young age STIs: this is the new term for STD, meaning sexually transmitted infections. These different infractions are spreading faster and faster in teens due to our ridiculous society that encourages pre mature sex. She could get stuck with any disease for the rest of her life considering a good amount of them DO NOT HAVE A CURE. And it could prevent her form ever having children. Think about her in about ten years finally getting married to her love but then saying to him that she can never have sex with him or have children with him because the doesn't want him to endure the infection that she has had to deal with all because of a stupid decision she made as a stupid teenager, and yes! Teenagers are stupid, why do you think we're still in school! Pregnancy: Even with a condom IT COULD BREAK AND YOU COULD STILL GET PREGNANT! Even if it doesn't break there is a chance of it just not working then she would have to get an abortion which I think is just ethically wrong but otherwise she would have to leave school to take care of her child and she would not get a good education, and from there what kind of job would she be able to get!?!?! She wouldn't be able to live with her parents forever! Social life: as @kenzie told, girls are definitely criticized in losing their virginity especially at such a young age. I think that you should know there are bullies, even if it is an untrue rumor a lot of people have committed suicide because they were constantly called sluts and whores. So please, don't let that ever happen to somebody you care about.
almost 5 years ago
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Pregnancy: even if the she does use a condom it is not 100% effective she could still get pregnant! And when she does she would either have to get an abortion which really is just ethically wrong or she would have to drop out of school and never get an education and when she is an adult what kind of job is she supposed to get without a high school education!?!? She can't live with her parents forever!
almost 5 years ago
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social life: as Kenzie told people's lives are ruined because of that choice. Even girls that never actually lost their virginity are bullied every day being called sluts and whores which does lead to suicide especially if they did do it, the guilt of going against moral values. So please don't let this happen to anybody you care about, ever.
almost 5 years ago
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4730-13-profile-78907
@SoDevilish don't call lowqualitydirt a clever 14 year old while I'm in the room
almost 5 years ago
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4951-21-427845405-profile-309815-0
@Sarah. Thank you for backing me up. It is sometimes a disgrace to everyone else, but most of all you are disgracing yourself. You make that decision to pretty much ruin your life, what are you supposed to do after that. She is going to want to grow up, get a job, have a good education, makr some money, find the man of her dreams and have kids. Just please tell her to think. Please?!?
almost 5 years ago
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4666-13-profile-441679
Oh snap! Get it girl. Is Exactly what she needs to hear.
almost 5 years ago
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4869-17-420745756-profile-688592-0
just tell her that she's to young and to wait till she's old enough and the time is right
over 4 years ago
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5779-22-499388068-profile-690603-0
good for her!
over 4 years ago
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5707-3-profile-477722
I. Hate. Society.
over 4 years ago
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4977-23-430095941-profile-657150-0
Holy crap wait a few years
about 4 years ago
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Nij
these girls in this time are trying to grow up so fast, sheesh, why don't they enjoy being kids geez louise
almost 4 years ago
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5171-5-446793785-profile-1150649-0
puh-leaze! That is such a stupid thought to even have. And at 13?? Is she dreamin? Wholy shit fit!
over 3 years ago
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