To what extent do you shape your destiny compared to the extend o which your fate is laid out for you?

we all have choices and i find it unlikely that all my choices have been chosen for me already

@Llew Ahh but you were in a sense programmed to make those choices

I'm a believer in God. I believe that he has mapped out ur destiny completly. What I mean is not only has he mapped out the destiny that u will end up choosing but also all the possibilities that u could have chosen. It's like ur an ant climbing up a tree, all u can see is what's in front of u and the choices(branches) that u can take, but God sees the whole tree and knows which one will give u the best adventure.

and he might pick u to go a certain way but will never force u to make a decision.

good question