I'm in love with two men, currently my bf and my first love. Who should I be with?

Your boyfriend, because people never get over their first love. You can't hang on to the past, you have to let go and think of the future.

who ever you fell for second. If you truly loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second one. People get over there first loves. I have.

@parisinblackandwhite you can get over your first love.

yes, go with your boyfriend. Look into the future and not the past. You and your first love probably have differences now. (Oh and btw my finger slipped and I meant to click bf)

@Shelby I was bout to say that, yea go with the second one

@Shelby that was wat Johnny depp said

I say ur first love, because if you truly loved ur boyfriend u wouldn't still have feelings for ur first love

You shouldn't be with either right now if you're confused. You need a break and time to think about what you really want.

i agree with mindy...or just stay with your bf and out of respect lose contact with your ex, you guys didn't make it for a reason so don't screw up something good for your past!

You should just forget about ur first love you broke up for a reason and you weren't meant to be so go with the bf.It also depends on how old you are dont worry bout it if your young

it must mean something if you're still hanging onto your first love.

If ur dating him see

How it goes then diside

first love because you can be with your own opinion don't ask people you can find true love any where!

which ever one u think u should be with

if you still love your ex then you've never loved your bf

Nobody that doesn't know them both should say anything I mean you're basing it on first and second! What about values, feeling, chemistry! What if a first love is an awful human being should they go with him because he was first? Or what if the second one was abusive? Should they go with him because people on the Internet say there might be something wrong with the first? Or what if they are both wonderful people? Either way its not fair to your current boyfriend to keep him waiting for you complete devotion!

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boyfriend, because if u really lived the 1st one you wouldn't hav fallen for your bf. And you can still like ur 1st luv as a friend

Well who's the one that knows you he best. You should hang out with the boy who knows you the best

Hope your bf dumps you so he can find someone who loves him only..

Forget them both, you can if you really love them you wouldn't have to choose

I'm not trying to sound like a geek or anything, but make a Venn diagram lol

I think you have to see who is make you happy ,who is love you and can't live without and with who you become comfortable

I agree mindy and liv you have take a break and time to be alone and think about that

If you truly loved the first,you wouldn't have fallen for the second:)

Go on at bate with both of them and the one you have in your head you love that is what l did my mom first love is my dad lol

Wherever your heart is. Who brings you the most happiness..

to be honest it's really ur decision no matter what anybody else says

Whore

If you love 2 people, always choose the second one. If you really loved the first, you wouldn't have fallen in love with the second one. - Johnny Depp

@barbarian you do not need to tell her that it is not her fault!!!

You should be with the one who makes you the happiest and who is always there for you to make you happy all day everyday.

you wouldn't be with your boyfriend now if you didn't let go your first love .. Right?! So be with th e boyfriend ;)

@Cody I agree

The boyfriend because if you really loved the first love you wouldn't be in love with the boyfriend.!(:

If you really loved your boyfriend then you wouldn't even think about going back to your first love

None, if you can't choose one, choose none

@Shelby so true

he already had his chance and he blew stay wit ur boyfriend

I'm in luv with two people too! I'm dating one of them and the other one is so cute and funny and nice! I don't know what to do either but I'd have to say just go with ur heart!

It depends! Who is better for you?

Follow your heart don't base it on looks base it on how they make you feel same thing almost happened to me I choose the one that made me happy

Take The Second ! If you World Love The First The Second on Would Not exist

For me I had complications. So I said screw women, I will just wait for someone who I know I will love and know they won't date two of my friends while still having a thing with me and she being very depressed and suicidal/abusive/mean.

be who you wanna be

your boyfriend because if you really loved your first love you would have never left him.

go with ur gut

Im in the same situation. Go with your first love. If you cant get over him then yall are ment to be.

slap them in the face then dump them on the spot or stay with First love

@knickie I think that you should be with whoever treats you right and love you the most.

Pros and Cons man it works lol XD

For me I had complications. So I said screw women, I will just wait for someone who I know I will love and know they won't date two of my friends while still having a thing with me and she being very depressed and suicidal/abusive/mean.

be who you wanna be

your boyfriend because if you really loved your first love you would have never left him.

go with ur gut

Im in the same situation. Go with your first love. If you cant get over him then yall are ment to be.

slap them in the face then dump them on the spot or stay with First love

@knickie I think that you should be with whoever treats you right and love you the most.

Pros and Cons man it works lol XD

I would day your bf, because if you really love your first love, you wouldn't fall in love for your boyfriend. That means that the love between you and your first love is not that strong.

Pick your first love. Your mind is just confused and wants something to hold on to. Your heart is trying to find that love that you had with your first love. You think your in love with your boyfriend but your hearts just confused.

figure out urself before u be in a relationship w someone in the first place

if you love two people go with the second because if you loved the first there wouldn't be a second...--Johnny Depp

Get a life

Don't talk to either of them for a week and at the end find out who you miss more

I would go with your first love even if u have to give up your bf

I would say it bf because you need to look at the future not the past but then again if ur still confused I must still be really in love wit ur first love if your still thinkin bout him while ur dating

True but you never forget your true love

@liv you messed things up. Some one pls explain it to him...

honestly whoever u love more and if u can't choose then neither

kill yourself

you shouldn't be with anyone if your still in love with someone else

You guys are mixing up Johnny Depp's quote, what he meant when he said it is that if ur going out with someone and u fall for another person, then u should choose the second. In her situation it isn't like that, she wasn't dating her boyfriend and then she fell for another man, she's dating her boyfriend, but she's still in love with her first love, that's why I say go with the first love, because if she really loved her current boyfriend, she wouldn't still have feelings for her first love.

We don't know anything Bout them

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If u loved the first one enough u never would have fallen for the 2nd

@Totoro very good comment. I like this

hoe

The one who feels right to be with. :-)

"If you are in love with two people always pick the second because why would you fall for the second if you were happy with the first?" ~Johnny Depp

you a hoe! -.-

you don't deserve either!-.-

"If you're in love with two people, go with the second, because if you really loved the first, you wouldn't have fallen for the second" not an exact quote from... Someone?

who ever treats you better

be with your first love because if you're heart is straying from your boyfriend now then it was never with him at all.

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